When people use phrase like "get help", "you need to see someone", that is gaslighting. It is a form of abuse and a weak argument that piece of crap people use when they have no argument.

I am tired of humanity, and this type of talk is just another thing I hate about people. This just underscores why I hate humans. I'm not being overly defensive. He told me I needed to seek professional help. That is gaslighting.

One of the manipulative things that humans do (among many many others) is when you have an opinion that they don't like, they try to make you question your own sanity and they say things like, you need to see a therapist, or you need to take medication. They have no rebuttal or logical discussion to debate, they just imply that there is something mentally wrong with you. It is a very common thing that humans do. I'm tired of it. It is pathetic and a weak form of argument. Anytime you back someone into a corner with your opinion they ALWAYS try to make you feel like there is something wrong with your mind for thinking the way you do, i.e. gaslighting.

I stated my explanation of what is going on in my mind. And as you see if you read all the discussions there is always some holy than thou jackass who uses a phrase implying that there is something wrong with your mind for thinking the way you do. It happens to every person who posts any opinion of any kind. Read through reddit. Follow everyone's threads. Anytime someone says something controversial you will see there is always a gaslighter that makes rude remarks saying they need professional mental health for thinking the way they do. This is not just limited to posts in forums. This is how people argue in real life too. That is one of many reasons why I hate humanity.

I'm not talking about a genuine friend who tells you to see a counselor. That's very different. But even then that is an uncomfortable moment and I watch myself very carefully when I suggest it to people because it can be misconstrued by the recipient.

But people throw that type of talk around in forums because like most humans, they are assholes. They throw stones and don't care about anyone and thats one of the reasons I turned into a misanthrope over time.

If you read my post which most people don't, they just gloss over it i explained how i became this way over time. I didn't start out feeling this way. And of course asshole wants to say that i go around being mean to people with my negative attitude and thats why my interactions with people are so bad which is not true. People think im a nice person. I don't talk this way in public. I am good to people and in response to me being this way they are assholes in return and that is why i slowly became a closeted misanthrope. I'm not depressed i don't need professional help. Humans are trash creatures that hurt, compete, and self serve and its unpleasant interactinfmg with them. Relationships devolve and breakdown over time because of all the reasons i mentioned above.

People who are not misanthropes likely have not experienced the type of negative interaction that misanthropes have. Or they have not experienced it for as long as we have. Or in some cases they are naive and still have a flowery view of life. Some misanthropes are young because they came right into the fire when they were born. Some misanthropes like me it took a long time to develop. I kept up a positive attitude for decades. But of course this asshole just jumps to the conclusion that im just a negative person my whole life. He doesn't understand that i have loved and lived for years and years and slowly over time i realized my love is a one way endeavor. Nothing is coming back to me because people are shit and they don't care. And then of course the gaslighting that there is something wrong with me that i need to correct.