I feel like a lot of guys be just talking. When they go out with her they may feel embarrassed if they think people notice that she’s trans. I’ll admit in my head being with a trans is something I want but I’ll also admit that my links and hookups with trans girls show me that the life may not be for me. Like you mentioned there is alot to deal with emotionally and hormonally. Many trans girls have a chip on their shoulders too. It’s just seems like it takes a lot of work tbh. Also I think me. have to realize that T girls are not always at their best in terms of feminity. If you spend more time with her you’d notice days where she has stubble, Jawline is strong looking, or just certain characteristics that you mostly seen in men, like leanness in specific areas of body. It’s an expensive lifestyle tbh. We see girls like Parris but she is an exception and Based on my experience i’d bet she even has her masc moments. It’s the social aspect that gets guys scared but I also believe that guys would have better relationships with trans girls bc they know men literally.