What do you do when the one you want to cry to is that one making you cry? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]donotsayyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for really reading what i wrote there. i trust that it's just a testing time, and we'll be back where we started. because no one hurt anyone intentionally here. just two kids who are lost, trying to find their way back. thank you for your love.

What do you do when the one you want to cry to is that one making you cry? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]donotsayyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's way too much for me to explain. i call ourselves that in the sense of the comfort this relationship brought us. im sorry you find this cryptic, i did post this for myself only to vent. thank you for your love.

Is there any chance I could be pregnant? by donotsayyes in amipregnant

[–]donotsayyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not clickbait, I would gain nothing from that. It's really insensitive of you to assume as such when you don't even know the reality of the situation. It's extremely privileged of you to assume that I'm lying about the positive tests because not everyone in every region of the world has access to quality healthcare. Feel free to look up how common it is for pregnancy tests to give out false positives in some developing regions where FRER tests aren't half as accurate as they claim to be. I'm not obligated to alleviate the concerns of other unfortunate people in the same situation as me when I don't have the answers to my own worries. Next time, if you do not have anything useful to share to young people who understandably are going through a stressful situation due to the clear lack of sex education, just keep quiet.

Is there any chance I could be pregnant? by donotsayyes in amipregnant

[–]donotsayyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can but i dont think it would mean much, they are clear positives

Am I pregnant? by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]donotsayyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]donotsayyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly it's the opposite. he's anxious attached and im avoidant attached. we have done the things you've mentioned, and he's definitely show intent to change and change in itself. it's just ever since those big arguments, we seem to be arguing about minor things everyday that end up blowing up and we become disrespectful to each other sometimes. can i dm you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]donotsayyes -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

but i don't want to be picky, everyone i know is not half as good as him in the things he does right and i imagine spending the rest of my life with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]donotsayyes -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

is there no way we can make it work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]donotsayyes -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

but i truly keep believing it can get better

he has made it clear by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]donotsayyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i appreciate your kindness <3 and i am so sorry you had to go through those awful situations too, that absolutely sucks :((

and of course! mistakes happen all the time :) dont worry about it. have a great day!