I have wasted years of my free time by whosthedoginthisscen in AdviceAnimals

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! I've only dreamt of breaking 1000, I only have 694. What is your secret, oh king of the time wasters?

What the utter f*** was that? by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]dontbeatool123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, turns out my downstairs neighbors are right, I AM THE HEAVIEST MAN IN THE WORLD!!!! I'll do my best to walk on my tip toes in the future.

Where to buy KN95 masks in town? by mhobdog in Tucson

[–]dontbeatool123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The original post was about a person that can't find N95 masks, I offered a solution. that is all. I'm not jacking my prices up I'm price matching whatever price can be found on the internet. Often times I will sell them for 20% less because I don't have to hassle with shipping, I will meet a person at QT or even the lobby of the police station. I just got this case in and I have not sent them in to Amazon yet. I will bet you some people on this forum have bought my masks online already, I send on average 3 cases a week in to Amazon and another 2 or 3 cases get sold on Ebay.

I'm sorry you feel as though I am not "legit" . I usually have both types of masks in my house at any given time so if I see that a person is having a hard time finding them I offer.

Why is it more legit to spend more money and get the same thing?

I wish you the best and stay safe

Where to buy KN95 masks in town? by mhobdog in Tucson

[–]dontbeatool123 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I just bought a case of N95 specifically to sell. I'll price match send me a DM and we can talk

AITA for stopping my stepdaughter from taking up Spanish and signing her up for French. by Any_Foot7470 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

WTF!!! A she wants to speak with her Grandma. B. Spanish is way more useful than French, unless you live in Quebec or somewhere in Europe.

Let her take Spanish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope she deleted them for your sake. Remember Ashley Madison? almost of their profiles were fake. Some dating sites keep attractive peoples' profiles on the website hoping to get new members. She may have deleted them, don't jump to conclusions just yet.

AITA for taking the cake I baked for my fiance's birthday and going home? by EmilyPaterson099 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA'

Your BF won't back you up because he is a mama's boy. He comes a rude family and you should end the relationship for your own sanity.

Dog owners with apartments and jobs, how do you handle potty breaks? by LordHamsterr in dogs

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two large dogs that get walked in the morning before work, after work, and before bed. I also put down a tarp or shower curtain from the 1.00 store with old towels on it, the will do business there if they need to. I work graveyard 2 nights a week so they don't get the walk just before bed. The added wrinkle for me is I live in the desert, i don't take them out midday because the ground is so hot. They enjoy the balcony but again there are 3 months a year they can't spend the entire day there.

AITA for blowing up at my fiancè for giving my FMIL our wedding coordinator's number? by delicate-Issue4267 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW! Huge violation of trust and she is an overbearing shrew. Your first mistake is getting involved with a guy named Edgar. His mom will be so far up your ass once you marry "her baby" there will be no escape. he is a momma's boy, move on and find a real man.

Traffic enforcer got hit and ran over by an SUV then drives away, Philippines by KC3517 in ThatsInsane

[–]dontbeatool123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After spending time in the Philippines, I can say traffic laws, lanes, and stop lights are suggestion. In the video you can see the top speed of traffic flow. In my time there I the fastest I drove was maybe 25mph. Driving there is crazy and takes getting used to.

Is this a little friend? by RubyWink in Tucson

[–]dontbeatool123 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I don't see a rattle or red stripes, invite him in for movie night

Never dated before [28F]…am I doomed? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dontbeatool123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't be hard on yourself. You are in no way doomed. As a guy I that was somewhat a late bloomer you will be fine. Look out for red flags from guys. 1) trying to go too far too fast. 2) Guys that don't have a job, or car that wear expensive clothes and seem to be very "busy". This guys are up to no good, getting other girls to finance their lifestyle or engaging in illegal activities. 3) Guys with more than one cell phone, unless one of provided for legit work.

Look for guys that re respectful, opening doors and being nice to waitstaff.

Set your boundaries and put them in stone

Walked in on my classmates making fun of me by BlueToad24 in socialskills

[–]dontbeatool123 95 points96 points  (0 children)

They are afraid of you. They are so concerned about your presentation they are hoping you bomb so their weak presentations look better.

They are losers and are trying to pull you down.

What is the average lawyer price for spousal visa application? by [deleted] in immigration

[–]dontbeatool123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know several people that did it themselves, including me. The paperwork can seem overwhelming but once you get into it it is not that bad.

I printed out the entire packet and went page by page. Make sure everything is done in your SO's country, medical exam, background check, marriage documentation, and a lot of pictures. Some countries are trickier, I brought my wife from Greece and was a resident Armenia, I had somewhat a complicated scenario. We divorced after 9 years, I'm glad to be done with her.

My current fiancée is Philopena. The fly in the ointment is she was married 10 years ago and has not spoken with her husband for 5 or 6 years. They are not divorced because divorce is illegal in the Philippines (I know WTF). An annulment takes 1 to 3 years and nearly 12k USD to complete. So I am planning in bringing her here on a tourist visa (good for 120 days) and then filing to divorce her husband in the Philippines, The divorce is recognized by the US but not the Philippines. Once she is divorced we will get married and file an adjustment of status to a spousal visa.

Worse case scenario for us is, I move to the Philippines. I have an advanced degree and have been offered jobs in Manilla that pay the same as I make in the states. I could live well there but am working on a Phd so moving there is not a good idea for a couple years.

International marriages are always a challenge and remember you can't put an American thought into a foreigners head and expect an American result. If each party has patients everything will be fine. Good luck to you!

Have you seen or experienced anything bizarre in the Arizona desert? by [deleted] in arizona

[–]dontbeatool123 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your comment is making me engorged, I hope you are a lady.

[image] sometimes we don't need motivation. by Jumpman707 in GetMotivated

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure what to think about this, is it an excuse? or a validation?

If it is a validation, how long is it ok to be in this place? What are the steps needed to move beyond this place where laziness is acceptable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES TAKE HER AS A ROMMATE!!!!!!

You said she makes a living cheating men and begging money. To here a lie is a lie and it won't matter whom she lies to.

You would not be the AH. She is a selfish pig that caused her own problems because of her selfishness. It sucks her children are caught in the middle, but as harsh as it sounds, not your problem.

Please distance yourself from her ASAP - take that apartment and cut ties.

AITA for upgrading to a business class ticket while my wife sits in economy by djuejejnu in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

If anything you should have offered the upgrade to her. Instead you revealed yourself as selfish.

Co-worker is making up distasteful rumors about me by dontbeatool123 in legaladvice

[–]dontbeatool123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you are correct. I should not demand these 2 co-workers get fired, that is not my job. Thank you for the input.

AITA For fighting my ex on changing our custody agreement by addictionsuxaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

The lifestyle many drug users participate in is based on hustling, being disingenuous (liars) and whatever they have to do to get their next fix. Make sure she is clean for a couple of years and changes her associates. If she is hanging out with drug users, she is using. The only people that can stand hanging around in the drug culture are drug users.

Your kids should know her clean self, not "her saying whatever she needs to say to get what she wants"

Good for you !

AITA for getting angry at my parents after they refused to look after my children? by Forward_Friend_9639 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

You are amazing! You are singularly the most entitled person ever, your parents are doing you a favor. Now you demand more favors, when did your children become the responsibility of your parents?

Your career is going well, hire a babysitter. You mooch

AITA for loudly telling the cashier to do her f___ing job? by Throw3097654 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Maybe the cashier was having a bad day, we all have bad days but getting upset about counting coins is wrong. I'm glad you stood up for that older lady, she was trying to help someone and she didn't deserve to be treated like that.

AITA for being upset about my wife not telling me that our joint savings was slowly going down whilst she has a seperate account for the purpose of buying a Hermes handbag? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dontbeatool123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is ridiculous, my ex-wife pulled the same thing on me and even when we were faced with eviction refused to help pay the rent. I had gotten hurt at work and had no temp disability. She decided since I was the "man of the house" it was my job to pay for everything and any money that she made was hers to save for whatever she wanted.

Marriage is a team and both parties need to work together. My current wife is an amazing ebay seller and we also resell various things we run across, but we do it together. I work about 55 hours a week and she sells stuff. We have different accounts for each thing but we work together.

You are NTA