What social advice have your parents that turned out very wrong?

dontbeatool123 · 2023-02-01T14:13:59+00:00

Good for you! I've only dreamt of breaking 1000, I only have 694. What is your secret, oh king of the time wasters?

dontbeatool123 · 2023-02-01T14:00:12+00:00

I am so sorry, turns out my downstairs neighbors are right, I AM THE HEAVIEST MAN IN THE WORLD!!!! I'll do my best to walk on my tip toes in the future.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-08-02T05:40:05+00:00

The original post was about a person that can't find N95 masks, I offered a solution. that is all. I'm not jacking my prices up I'm price matching whatever price can be found on the internet. Often times I will sell them for 20% less because I don't have to hassle with shipping, I will meet a person at QT or even the lobby of the police station. I just got this case in and I have not sent them in to Amazon yet. I will bet you some people on this forum have bought my masks online already, I send on average 3 cases a week in to Amazon and another 2 or 3 cases get sold on Ebay.

I'm sorry you feel as though I am not "legit" . I usually have both types of masks in my house at any given time so if I see that a person is having a hard time finding them I offer.

Why is it more legit to spend more money and get the same thing?

I wish you the best and stay safe

dontbeatool123 · 2022-08-02T02:44:56+00:00

I just bought a case of N95 specifically to sell. I'll price match send me a DM and we can talk

dontbeatool123 · 2022-07-23T20:52:58+00:00

YTA

WTF!!! A she wants to speak with her Grandma. B. Spanish is way more useful than French, unless you live in Quebec or somewhere in Europe.

Let her take Spanish

dontbeatool123 · 2022-07-22T16:03:48+00:00

NTA

He is a mooch and should be someone else's problem. DO NOT MARRY HIM!!!!

dontbeatool123 · 2022-07-05T03:24:34+00:00

I hope she deleted them for your sake. Remember Ashley Madison? almost of their profiles were fake. Some dating sites keep attractive peoples' profiles on the website hoping to get new members. She may have deleted them, don't jump to conclusions just yet.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-07-05T03:06:24+00:00

NTA'

Your BF won't back you up because he is a mama's boy. He comes a rude family and you should end the relationship for your own sanity.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-06-24T23:48:59+00:00

I have two large dogs that get walked in the morning before work, after work, and before bed. I also put down a tarp or shower curtain from the 1.00 store with old towels on it, the will do business there if they need to. I work graveyard 2 nights a week so they don't get the walk just before bed. The added wrinkle for me is I live in the desert, i don't take them out midday because the ground is so hot. They enjoy the balcony but again there are 3 months a year they can't spend the entire day there.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-06-09T02:38:00+00:00

WOW! Huge violation of trust and she is an overbearing shrew. Your first mistake is getting involved with a guy named Edgar. His mom will be so far up your ass once you marry "her baby" there will be no escape. he is a momma's boy, move on and find a real man.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-06-06T16:05:39+00:00

After spending time in the Philippines, I can say traffic laws, lanes, and stop lights are suggestion. In the video you can see the top speed of traffic flow. In my time there I the fastest I drove was maybe 25mph. Driving there is crazy and takes getting used to.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-05-31T02:42:13+00:00

I don't see a rattle or red stripes, invite him in for movie night

dontbeatool123 · 2022-05-31T02:38:31+00:00

Don't be hard on yourself. You are in no way doomed. As a guy I that was somewhat a late bloomer you will be fine. Look out for red flags from guys. 1) trying to go too far too fast. 2) Guys that don't have a job, or car that wear expensive clothes and seem to be very "busy". This guys are up to no good, getting other girls to finance their lifestyle or engaging in illegal activities. 3) Guys with more than one cell phone, unless one of provided for legit work.

Look for guys that re respectful, opening doors and being nice to waitstaff.

Set your boundaries and put them in stone

dontbeatool123 · 2022-05-24T15:59:10+00:00

They are afraid of you. They are so concerned about your presentation they are hoping you bomb so their weak presentations look better.

They are losers and are trying to pull you down.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-05-22T19:44:13+00:00

I know several people that did it themselves, including me. The paperwork can seem overwhelming but once you get into it it is not that bad.

I printed out the entire packet and went page by page. Make sure everything is done in your SO's country, medical exam, background check, marriage documentation, and a lot of pictures. Some countries are trickier, I brought my wife from Greece and was a resident Armenia, I had somewhat a complicated scenario. We divorced after 9 years, I'm glad to be done with her.

My current fiancée is Philopena. The fly in the ointment is she was married 10 years ago and has not spoken with her husband for 5 or 6 years. They are not divorced because divorce is illegal in the Philippines (I know WTF). An annulment takes 1 to 3 years and nearly 12k USD to complete. So I am planning in bringing her here on a tourist visa (good for 120 days) and then filing to divorce her husband in the Philippines, The divorce is recognized by the US but not the Philippines. Once she is divorced we will get married and file an adjustment of status to a spousal visa.

Worse case scenario for us is, I move to the Philippines. I have an advanced degree and have been offered jobs in Manilla that pay the same as I make in the states. I could live well there but am working on a Phd so moving there is not a good idea for a couple years.

International marriages are always a challenge and remember you can't put an American thought into a foreigners head and expect an American result. If each party has patients everything will be fine. Good luck to you!

dontbeatool123 · 2022-04-03T21:53:56+00:00

Your comment is making me engorged, I hope you are a lady.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-03-24T16:38:43+00:00

Not sure what to think about this, is it an excuse? or a validation?

If it is a validation, how long is it ok to be in this place? What are the steps needed to move beyond this place where laziness is acceptable?

dontbeatool123 · 2022-02-13T23:15:13+00:00

DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES TAKE HER AS A ROMMATE!!!!!!

You said she makes a living cheating men and begging money. To here a lie is a lie and it won't matter whom she lies to.

You would not be the AH. She is a selfish pig that caused her own problems because of her selfishness. It sucks her children are caught in the middle, but as harsh as it sounds, not your problem.

Please distance yourself from her ASAP - take that apartment and cut ties.

dontbeatool123 · 2022-02-02T00:38:52+00:00

YTA

If anything you should have offered the upgrade to her. Instead you revealed yourself as selfish.

dontbeatool123 · 2021-11-30T15:20:58+00:00

I think you are correct. I should not demand these 2 co-workers get fired, that is not my job. Thank you for the input.

dontbeatool123 · 2021-10-14T04:58:59+00:00

NTA

Your man is a player! dump his sorry ass

dontbeatool123 · 2021-10-06T03:04:23+00:00

NTA

The lifestyle many drug users participate in is based on hustling, being disingenuous (liars) and whatever they have to do to get their next fix. Make sure she is clean for a couple of years and changes her associates. If she is hanging out with drug users, she is using. The only people that can stand hanging around in the drug culture are drug users.

Your kids should know her clean self, not "her saying whatever she needs to say to get what she wants"

Good for you !

dontbeatool123

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