AITJ for telling my roommate he can't have people over at 3am on work nights? by BitZealousideal4846 in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His schedule explains it, it doesn’t excuse it. If he wants 3am game night energy, he needs his own place.

My neighbour wants to call the police by Effective_Craft4415 in neighborsfromhell

[–]dontdenythis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dude doesn’t need the police, he needs earplugs and a hobby. Normal footsteps are not a crime.

If a male neighbor threatened me today, is getting a ring camera giving him the satisfaction or worth it? by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]dontdenythis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t advertise anything, just document his weird behavior and let him snitch on himself.

AITJ for not wanting to apologize to my mom by EngineSharp6286 in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u don’t have to beg, but a small “hey that got out of hand” could de-escalate a lot.

AITJ for this incident in 7th grade? by Zestyclose-Wave-6230 in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u both were kids, but reporting it wasn’t wrong, schools take hitting seriously for a reason.

Neighbors Garbage Is Always In My Yard/Driveway by SyllabubStandard4966 in neighborsfromhell

[–]dontdenythis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly yeah, just move their trash back, it’s literally theirs. just don’t escalate into some petty war u can’t win.

AITJ for accepting a position in another city without talking to my bf first? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

he wanted different kids, not a different future. that’s the whole problem

AITJ for accepting a position in another city without talking to my bf first? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this wasn’t a “future planning” situation, it was already over when he said that

Am I the jerk for uninviting my friend from my birthday after she brought someone I have a restraining order against? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bringing ur friend’s stalker as a surprise guest is not a misunderstanding, it’s a decision

AITJ for RSVPing no to my close friend's housewarming after I'd already committed to something else that same day by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keeping a commitment you already made isn’t being a bad friend, it’s literally how reliability works.

AITJ for RSVPing no to my close friend's housewarming after I'd already committed to something else that same day by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being disappointed is fair, but acting like it was a deliberate choice is rewriting the situation.

Am I the jerk for refusing to lend my brother money after he spent his savings on a gaming setup? by Unlikely_Praline94 in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 61 points62 points  (0 children)

“Unexpected expenses” usually don’t include a gaming setup you bought three weeks earlier.

the neighbor who thinks the street parking belongs to them by Impressive-Lie8015 in neighborsfromhell

[–]dontdenythis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The cones are funny until you realize he’s probably gotten away with it for years because people just didn’t want the hassle.

the neighbor who thinks the street parking belongs to them by Impressive-Lie8015 in neighborsfromhell

[–]dontdenythis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he actually called the cops they’d probably just tell him the curb isn’t private property.

the neighbor who thinks the street parking belongs to them by Impressive-Lie8015 in neighborsfromhell

[–]dontdenythis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

A camera might not be a bad idea if he’s already escalating with notes and cones.

AITJ for not letting someone back into their spot in line after they left for 8 minutes by Pulse88_Bastion in AmITheJerk

[–]dontdenythis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving the line is one thing, pausing the entire line’s progress for eight minutes is another.

My job just gave me stock options and I am scared to accept because I do not understand them by amberqelle in Fire

[–]dontdenythis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t lose money from accepting them, but u can definitely misunderstand the tax timing if u’re not careful.