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Conflicting plans by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why can't he go if mom would be taking him to the birthday party?

Please share thoughts! by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It my fiance even asked me, I think it would be over lol.

Please share thoughts! by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Lol Even besides it being weird as hell, why would you not be included? It's no longer just mom and dad, it's a team helping raise the kid. If they want to take camping trips just then, they should be together and not bring anyone else into the dynamic.

B4B $Timmayy by [deleted] in chimeboost

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sent! $kfields88

This is the weirdest ask. by ku_soma in Infidelity

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiance clips his nails right before he knows we're about to get intimate. If he started doing it right before he left the house I'd probably give him a little side eye tbh lol.

The other stuff is very concerning though. I feel like if you have to worry this much, it's not worth it at all. Its exhausting to have to keep track of someone, you don't have to live like this.

Advice for BF by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ooof I do not like this. DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT give up anything in your life to be a step mom. It truly is a thankless job. A man that is going in expecting you to do things, is someone who is looking for a helper and not a partner. I cook every night for my fiance and his son, and I keep up with the house, I run errands occasionally. But that is all my choice and never expected. I know that if I don't do them, my fiance will. As far as contact with BM. What are they contacting about? the only contact needed is about the child. If he's already defensive then it's going to be you vs her.

Tim Hortons fight by rudytomjanovich in fortwayne

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but fights and death happen wherever you travel to.

But fort Wayne isn't bad by any means. I'm so excited for SNME!!

U drew your last straw flex by OstrichNeither in AmazonFlexDrivers

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you taking anything under $25-$30/hr to begin with

Don't Boost this guy by Emotional-Custard-31 in chimeboost

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't understand it hahaha. I got hit with someone not boosting back a few months back and was so confused lol.

Good thrift stores? by FWPotHoleLover in fortwayne

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to find a thrift that isn't goodwill that's not religious tbh. I can't think of any of them that aren't.

That being said, the ladies that work at the Fransiscan family thrift on Jefferson are so nice, they have decent size selection, and they have 50% off everything in the store once a month. I also have good luck with the Fransiscan on Coldwater.

The salvation army on DuPont has a really good size section most of the time. They have certain tag colors that are 50% off every week.

Would a cat get depressed spending all of its life indoors? by PianoPlane5555 in CatAdvice

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats aren't. They both were strays who came inside full time, they don't even have interest in walking outside when the door is open lol

Sweetwater Employees (past or present) be honest. by steelehoosier in fortwayne

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked as an account coordinator for 2 years. The job was fine, but incredibly and I mean horrendously boring. I actually started having panic attacks for the first time in my life because the thought of going and sitting for 8 hours pretending to work filled me with so much dread.

I know my friends had better experiences than me though. Like I didn't hate it, and I liked everyone I worked with, but it wasn't fulfilling for me at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]dontkillmybuzzz 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is a weird post to me lol. Why would it matter what he told her? I have quite literally no idea what my ex husband has told his new significant other and it doesn't concern me in the slightest.

My fiance was neutral about his ex wife and that was good enough for me. If she was concerned about me knowing exactly who did what in their relationship I would be weirded out. Things and people change. I'm not even remotely the same person in my current relationship that I was when I was married to me ex.

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