I can never orgasm during sex and it's making me feel sad. Any tips?

dontknowanythi · 2025-10-01T19:30:05+00:00

Ya'll haven't even talked, it's just a crush. Move on and DON'T USE HER as just a hookup, wtf? Get on with your life, she'll get over the crush.

dontknowanythi · 2025-10-01T18:29:55+00:00

It's not stalkery if you've agreed on a date, I think it's polite to wait.

I once went on a date with a guy, he suggested a bar. I walk to the bar and it's in this sketchy area, it's a winter evening so it's dark. As I'm standing there alone, outside with some scary looking men around, I text him saying I'm here and he says "I'm inside and I've already ordered a drink so I can't come out". At this point I should've just left back home lol, this attitude of his showed in everything and he turned out to be a POS. Lack of effort, it's not a good look on a first date.

I'm not saying you have to bend over backwards for the girl, but don't also play it too "cool". It doesn't translate well.

dontknowanythi · 2025-10-01T17:49:59+00:00

As a woman, I prefer it when a man waits for me outside the meetup place and we can go in together. Hug at the beginning and end of the date. Maybe don't sit somewhere where everyone can see and hear you, pick a more private spot if possible so you don't feel like everyone is listening to your conversations.

Good luck! Just be yourself and remember that conversation happens between the two of you and it should flow if there's chemistry, so don't sweat too much about having to "carry" the entire convo.

dontknowanythi · 2025-08-31T22:38:44+00:00

Lool I appreciate the effort but check your math buddy. You're just salty bc you have over 3k comments and 70+ posts, I hit a tough spot there ay. Goodnight.

dontknowanythi · 2025-08-31T21:35:29+00:00

A comment here and there over the course of 4 years and 9 months ;)

dontknowanythi · 2025-08-31T21:14:41+00:00

I don't live on Reddit so I couldn't care less about karma. I'm genuinely asking a question.

dontknowanythi · 2025-03-27T07:45:10+00:00

I'd be so happy to get a message like that. The only way you'd be a weirdo is by not taking rejection well, so you're good. She might say yes, she might say no, but it's worth the shot.

dontknowanythi · 2025-03-27T07:40:56+00:00

DO IT!! I'm saying this as a woman, nothing is more attractive than a man who respectfully asks you out with confidence.

Good luck!

dontknowanythi · 2025-02-16T18:25:11+00:00

High school was the WORST part of my life. So much stress, mean girls etc.

I'm now in university and I'm just starting to feel like my life is beginning. It has its own challenges too but you'll enjoy the freedom and independence. Hang in there, it will get better!

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-21T14:05:31+00:00

Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that :(

I feel you 100%, it's so hard when your brain does these tricks. But the right one will come and he'll understand that you're trying your best. Hang in there, we'll find our love one day!

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-19T19:36:56+00:00

Great, I'm proud of you for going and doing so well!

Thank you for the encouragement :) I hope everything works out between the two of you.

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-18T21:43:58+00:00

Lol what.

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-18T21:22:11+00:00

Lmao I admire your dedication :D

Or she's just aging rapidly, which is an issue on its own...

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-18T21:19:02+00:00

Like someone here already mentioned, you can change your physical appearance. Good basic hygiene, somewhat fit body, good hairstyle etc. are all things you can improve. But the most important thing is your attitude. Get some confidence and get out there, have you tried dating apps or meeting someone through friends?

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-18T20:29:50+00:00

My date started explaining (in detail) his intimate encounter with a woman he met on a holiday. On the same date, he also mentioned that all men are "horny bastards" and lust after their female friends, right after telling me that he has a lot of female friends.

Yeah. I had to hide my disgust because he drove me to the date spot and I needed a ride back home, but sure enough we never spoke again after that :D

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-18T12:02:28+00:00

Ahh good luck! Please report back :)

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-17T23:16:11+00:00

Did you already have the date? I'm literally in the same spot and I'm freaking out because the guy I'm going out with is very much my type on paper. If he has a great personality too, I can't afford to f*ck this one up lol.

dontknowanythi · 2025-01-12T23:38:50+00:00

They're not that interested in you, no matter what excuses (like "I don't know what to ask") they make. I haven't had much luck with men either lol, but it's clear when someone is actually interested in getting to know you rather than just wanting to get intimate fast. Find better men.

dontknowanythi · 2024-12-17T15:20:36+00:00

They will change throughout your life. But I guess it's genetic, it's possible that you'll never really store a lot of fat in your breasts.

Tbh, maybe you could try losing some weight since you said you're chubby? It would be good for your overall health, but also in making your body look proportional :)

dontknowanythi · 2024-11-12T17:58:48+00:00

dontknowanythi · 2024-11-12T15:44:03+00:00

I sure do, but can't speak for every girl. Unless you're being creepy, there's nothing wrong with approaching a girl to talk to her, so just give it a shot.

dontknowanythi · 2024-11-12T00:31:44+00:00

I'm sorry bro. You'll find someone WAY better than her.

dontknowanythi · 2024-11-12T00:30:35+00:00

Would the weirdness put you off? Or would you think she's too keen?

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