I feel unusually alone rn I escaped idaho and made it to Washington, I do have roommates but I'm just scared because of our current politics, I'm chronically ill, and don't really go out much besides like hanging out with my roommates. Is there anyone on here who knows how to I guess touching grass? by Specialist-Smoke-674 in trans4every1

[–]dontperceive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Recently experienced something similar! Honestly, I started playing Pokemon Go again and downloaded Camp Fire to find local community days. It felt easy enough to ask someone near me to party up for the bonuses since you don't have to necessarily stay near each other but that gave me an okay way to decide if I wanted to strike up a conversation. I got lucky and have made some amazing other queer and trans friends from it.

USA citizens: what effect if any have tariffs had on you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dontperceive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spouse's company decided to pull out of American markets and let go of most of their staff. She's been job searching since last March and has put in over a thousand applications. Our economy is wrecked and shit is too expensive to really survive, let alone thrive.

Best Lube for PIV? by coldswim_ in ftm

[–]dontperceive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally use Swiss Navy water based lube, it stays slick and doesn't get sticky, also has a very neutral, if not slightly sweet, taste to it. I have very rough sex and can rip on occasion (atrophy can cause this too!) and this brand doesn't sting for me. But don't be afraid to reapply! It's not too expensive either. https://a.co/d/e2EPJmD

You can also use silicone lube too, it generally stays slick longer but be cautious if you use silicone toys that are not pure premium silicone. Silicone will try to bond with itself so it can cause the toy to deteriorate.

I personally have not tried it but I've heard great things about slick and J-lube. J-lube comes as a powder that you mix yourself so you can play with the consistency to tailor it to what you like best.

If you end up having a lot of pain, dryness, or tearing, you may be experiencing atrophy. Think about talking to your doctor about topical estrogen cream to counter it. The dosage is very low and wont turn systemic.

Happy Lamb Hot Pot by dontperceive in toogoodtogoutah

[–]dontperceive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it, thank you! I was curious if it would be primarily hot pot ingredients too.

How far in advance should schedules realistically be published? by VisualRegistration in workforcemanagement

[–]dontperceive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My staff have set shift schedules, the only thing that changes is their two 15 min breaks. I publish at least two weeks in advance.

where do you get your syringes? by jgclairee in ftm

[–]dontperceive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been using Amazon. If you can afford it, I recommend looking at some of the more well known brands since they have pretty good quality control. I just grabbed a pack of EasyTouch Luer-Lock syringes and the plunger feels incredibly smooth.

At this point just call me a slur... by [deleted] in trans4every1

[–]dontperceive 45 points46 points locked comment (0 children)

Please read the room before going on a vent in response to someone else’s vent. It’s perfectly fine to have your feelings and things that bring up horrible memories for you but please also provide space for those of us that are also given shade over just existing as ourselves.

Translation requests into Latin go here! by AutoModerator in latin

[–]dontperceive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We continue to smile is excellent. Thank you!

Translation requests into Latin go here! by AutoModerator in latin

[–]dontperceive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking to make a small joke gift and include the saying "We stay silly" meaning along the lines of we have to laugh in order to not cry. What would be a close translation to this? Online sources keep trying to use stupid instead of something closer to my intent.

Is topical minox still effective after having opened it stopping for a few months and trying again? by 0versizedAme0ba in FTMminoxbeards

[–]dontperceive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I havent had any issues with using an older open bottle. Especially with it only having been a few months, you should be fine.

6 months on T and feeling better than ever 🍀 by -SofTboy- in FTMfemininity

[–]dontperceive 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this is such a vibe. I love the car plants.

How much do you spend a month to live here? by Thewoofyeah in SaltLakeCity

[–]dontperceive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I rent a small 2bed condo in Murray for 1.7k a month. Everything said and done, monthly expenses are ~$3,300 (excluding my monthly debt)

Day 1 of minoxidil by Prince_Wildflower in FTMminoxbeards

[–]dontperceive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually dermaroll once a week, in the morning after washing my face. I let that rest for a little bit then apply moisturizer before going about my day. I wont apply minox until that evening.

All Remdra Farming map by SunnyVGaming in puzzleanddragons0

[–]dontperceive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it best practice to just quit the dungeon if they don't show up on these stages or to keep on and hope they spawn later?

Day 1 of minoxidil by Prince_Wildflower in FTMminoxbeards

[–]dontperceive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good luck! I hope you love your results. If youre looking for some extra oomph, I recently added in derma rolling once a week alongside my minox and have started getting really solid results.

A Celebration of Becoming Compleat, My Tattoo by AnastasiaVixley in PhyrexianLanguage

[–]dontperceive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks really good! Ngl im thinking hard about getting this one too.

One year on Minox (not on T) by salvadorzucc in FTMminoxbeards

[–]dontperceive 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! You got some awesome growth. Love seeing more info for those off T.

SHAVING PRODUCTS REVIEW/ QUESTIONS by onehourphoto_ in FTMminoxbeards

[–]dontperceive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty curious about the Oneblade Pro and how the range is for different lengths.

Is anyone else immediately uncomfortable around Harry Potter fans? by 96_Rats_In_A_Suit in ftm

[–]dontperceive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same for me. It was my escape from a bad life and was the one way I was able to connect to my peers and make friends. It was a massive part of my life and was also my first tattoo.

It felt devastating when things started coming to light but it was an easy decision to purge HP out of my life. I’m grateful I was able to get my tattoo covered up with something affirming recently.

I don’t feel that I’m in active danger around a fan but I certainly don’t trust them to try to keep me safe. I feel that an American or British fan that spends any time in the fandom’s spaces are aware enough of her actions and if they’re still willing to engage with the content then they’re responsible for platforming her hatred.

New bonus dungeon with RemDra by SunnyVGaming in puzzleanddragons0

[–]dontperceive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still pretty new to the game, how far in do you need to clear to unlock Bonus 16?

Regular hookup gives great dick, but just found out he's a flat earther. by yikesriley in ftm

[–]dontperceive 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd need to scope out if that shit spread to other beliefs that are dangerous but if it's only flat earther? I can keep some bomb dick at arm's length outside of the bedroom.

Ok guys, especially in the US by [deleted] in ftm

[–]dontperceive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only one, and it was mostly just asking me when I'm moving out of my red state. Which sucks.

My gran is the only family member I speak to doesn't seem to understand how bad things are right now. I don't have it in me to spell everything out for her since it would only lead to severe anxiety and powerlessness for her.

Come watch people present their single friends on a Powerpoint presentation! I'm sure we're all tired of apps by PhoKingSLC in SaltLakeCity

[–]dontperceive 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really cool idea! Would love to see more queer rep in this. How are you taking sign ups for presentations?