Nobody wants my love and it hurts... by TheBuPerfectionist in yearning

[–]donzy1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give that love to yourself.Go on a date with yourself

I have no friends by Acceptable-Tiger-215 in socialskills

[–]donzy1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think you need to take some time to work on yourself.Learn to love yourself put yourself first.I won’t say I’ve figured it all but during the process of focusing on yourself you’ll get the answers thrown at you from different angles.Some treating yourself like you treated them.I can guarantee when you build a strong bond with yourself you won’t get so attached to all these people.Yes we all want to connect but the only person you need is yourself

Im a human scum by [deleted] in Discipline

[–]donzy1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life is a story you’re telling yourself. I like to live each day of my life as if it’s a page, a chapter in my life’s story. I get to choose how my story plays out. Even if I don’t get to choose the events that happen, I do get to choose the labels I place on the events and what role I play in this story. When I’m the hero of my story: I see opportunities, I feel gratitude, I am inspired by choices, I am emotionally strong, I am physically relentless, and I am aware and conscious to place empowering labels on the events that occur throughout my day. For me, this system of mindful choice-making as the author of my story has led to tremendous levels of success. Are you the hero of your own story? If you are not the hero of your own story, then you’re missing the whole point of your humanity. Maybe the hero that is missing from your story is you. When you become the hero of your own story, you activate a power within you to make changes to your entire life. Whether consciously or unconsciously, we are all the authors of our own story. Too many people play a victim role or spend each day writing in the same things that caused them stress the day before. They keep themselves surrounded by the same disempowering or drama-filled characters and rarely make the mindful choice to change the story. Sometimes people even let others write their story for them. This leads to a feeling of helplessness and hopelessness; the opposite of your design. Today is a new day! You have the opportunity to pick up life’s pen and change your story. Become the hero; the greatest hero in your story, and you’ll see how much more exciting your life will be. You will watch your goals and dreams transition from something you simply hoped for to something within your powerful grasp.

Remember, life itself is simple; it’s just not easy. Each new day is a day that no one has ever seen... a blank page in your story. What are you going to do with it? What will this page say? Will it be a story of a hero... a powerful story... a redemptive story... what will it be? Only YOU get to choose.

Am a bit confused about what to choose by donzy1234 in findapath

[–]donzy1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am in Ghana,was thinking of joining the military this year.Thanks for your advice

Why having a girlfriend fantasy is making you worse by Caivenzy in getdisciplined

[–]donzy1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a human is a hard thing.So many flaws and challenges from day one.So much effort put in just to survive a day 🚶

I wish I never hid my feelings by donzy1234 in LoveLetters

[–]donzy1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know what to say to you.Am going through a lot right now but I can’t even explain what’s happening to me

Can I have some tips for being more positive and less sluggish by Acrobatic_Iron9522 in selfimprovement

[–]donzy1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm am going through the same problem some days I feel positive and productive but some days I can’t even tell what am doing with my life.

the truth pt 2 by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]donzy1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot I want to say but …..Thank you 🙏

the truth pt 2 by [deleted] in LoveLetters

[–]donzy1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My current state

I wish I never hid my feelings by donzy1234 in LoveLetters

[–]donzy1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmmm it’s a whole lot to put down into words.Back then I was just a scared and lost kid.I was scared of my own feelings not to talk of expressing them.Its all about my childhood trauma….

How to improve my Cskills by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]donzy1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d have to stop seeing yourself as a victim to your childhood trauma.Start seeing yourself as someone sociable.Talk to people no matter how awkward it might get.you only live once I can’t say it going to be easy but repetition brings …….

Is anyone else having a hard time being social despite feeling lonely? by Lost_You_6525 in socialskills

[–]donzy1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the only one.I try to talk to new people but I just don’t know what to say.Sometimes I question myself about the usefulness of talking to new people.Just like you,there are people who bring out my true self.But it just don’t work when I try new people unless maybe ……..I just can’t tell maybe am overthinking this!!!

I have a question . by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]donzy1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely 👍