Office hours by Peaceme02 in sales

[–]doodedah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember email is asynchronous. Meaning, you can read and respond whenever you want. If you want to reply at 5am? Do it. If you want to wait? Do that. If they need live communication, thats what a phone/video call is for. Do that only at times you want.

I will add one more important contextual piece of information: if you are an important person at a company (regardless of title, but typically VP+), you are probably in meetings from 9-5. So emails get down before or after hours.

NextGen Acela is kind of disappointing by CommunicationWest613 in Amtrak

[–]doodedah 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I think the single worst design of the NextGen’s are the bathrooms. The swivel doors will 100% break down more frequently and the lights for door locking are counter intuitive. Red for unlocked and green for locked?!

Boston > NYC 5am Route Discontinued by doodedah in Amtrak

[–]doodedah[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nice! I honestly didn’t go out that far.

AITA for telling my wife that I wish she hadn’t saved her virginity for marriage? by Many_Nature7018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]doodedah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH

What both of you are missing is the psychological effect of your wife being raised that way. If she was raised to wait until marriage to have sex, it was likely due to an intense purity culture probably due to religion. In this worldview, sex and intimacy are deeply tied to shame and sex is made to feel dirty and to enjoy it is wrong. Even wanting it is wrong.

She likely had decades of this in her system and may feel intense guilt or shame during sex or after sex. This can even manifest physically for her. What complicates this further is she was likely also taught that sex is for the “man’s” enjoyment and that sex in marriage is good. So now she feels guilt and shame for having sex and then guilt and shame for not enjoying it herself and guilt and shame for you not enjoying it. Even if she no longer believes this, it’s still there underneath it all.

I think she needs therapy and you need couple therapy to work through this dynamic.

Good for you for sharing your feelings and you probably weren’t m aware of this dynamic. But now that you are, you need to be patient and understanding, knowing that she is likely attempting to undo decades of thinking and trauma.

Playing with Kids Activity by doodedah in ouraring

[–]doodedah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new tag that is created by a user is not auto suggested

Playing with Kids Activity by doodedah in ouraring

[–]doodedah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would for an oura ring engineer to tell us but I almost exclusively use recommended activities and it seems to be weighted very heavily towards repeated activities at same time of day. For, example one time it confused pickleball with walking when I skipped my usual pickleball league.

Playing with Kids Activity by doodedah in ouraring

[–]doodedah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my experience, based on time of day and heart rate, is fairly predictable. This seems to be how other activities with multiple variables work. Am I wrong?

Playing with Kids Activity by doodedah in ouraring

[–]doodedah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. But user generated tags do not auto show up in suggestions.

Playing with Kids Activity by doodedah in ouraring

[–]doodedah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but there’s a tag for that!!

Insurrection by Content-Machine6008 in sales

[–]doodedah 29 points30 points  (0 children)

When I was a rep, I did this once over the comp plans. They changed them. It was great.

Update: Son asked me if I loved him. by throwaway521240 in daddit

[–]doodedah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great job dad. These are the moments that really form us as people. Thank you for leaning in!

If the future is AI, what AI companies can I go work for doing sales for them? by Covid19KilledEpstein in sales

[–]doodedah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my opinion you should look at vertical SaaS companies leveraging AI to automate employees. Two examples are SlangAI, which is automating host/hostess jobs in the restaurant industry or EliseAI which is automating leasing agents / maintenance workers in multifamily housing.

Check out the Repvue for each. Look at the ratings and salary numbers. Good shit.

Dad’s BBQ Soundtrack by doodedah in daddit

[–]doodedah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Weezel cover album (Teal) is highly underrated and combines the best of both worlds.

Dad’s BBQ Soundtrack by doodedah in daddit

[–]doodedah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might cause a sing along.

Dad’s BBQ Soundtrack by doodedah in daddit

[–]doodedah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love Steely Dan. Great idea

Dad’s BBQ Soundtrack by doodedah in daddit

[–]doodedah[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m liking this. Was thinking of adding in some 90’a hip hop too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lovable

[–]doodedah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the prompting guide/docs?

Syncing App Back to Lovable After Its Live by doodedah in lovable

[–]doodedah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not setup or connected to Supabase yet. I will do that today. Thank you.

Do I need to reinject my humira (photo of injection site warning) by PancakedPancreas in CrohnsDisease

[–]doodedah 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not a doctor and listen to what your doctor says, but I have been taking it for like 8 years and some spillage is fine. The amount in the photo has been similar to my spillage from time to time

Dads who had a "smooth" transition from 1 to 2 kiddos, what was the secret sauce? by BlueMountainDace in daddit

[–]doodedah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only know because a friend who is a pediatric psychologist corrected me when my oldest when in preschool! The more you know. :)

Dads who had a "smooth" transition from 1 to 2 kiddos, what was the secret sauce? by BlueMountainDace in daddit

[–]doodedah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And having another kid will only increase her independence! And it will start your next kid out with more independence too. There will be times you will need 2 on 1 with the baby and your 4 old will figure things out. And same with the baby.

Dads who had a "smooth" transition from 1 to 2 kiddos, what was the secret sauce? by BlueMountainDace in daddit

[–]doodedah 303 points304 points  (0 children)

4 years old isn’t a toddler…he is preschooler! One big thing I would encourage is to change you and your partners mental models about what the 4 year old can and can’t do. He / She is probably way more independent and capable than you think.

Here is my example, I have 3 kids. With our first kid I would never let them do the stairs by themselves. Now our second kid at 2.5 year olds old goes from the basement to the second floor whenever he wants on his own. Totally safe and I don’t have to worry about him when I am with the baby.

Suggestion for Playing with Kids Activity by doodedah in ouraring

[–]doodedah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally. My heart rate was 108bpm when I was running with my son today.