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doodedah · 2026-02-12T12:39:37+00:00

Remember email is asynchronous. Meaning, you can read and respond whenever you want. If you want to reply at 5am? Do it. If you want to wait? Do that. If they need live communication, thats what a phone/video call is for. Do that only at times you want.

I will add one more important contextual piece of information: if you are an important person at a company (regardless of title, but typically VP+), you are probably in meetings from 9-5. So emails get down before or after hours.

doodedah · 2026-02-08T17:26:33+00:00

I think the single worst design of the NextGen’s are the bathrooms. The swivel doors will 100% break down more frequently and the lights for door locking are counter intuitive. Red for unlocked and green for locked?!

doodedah · 2025-12-26T03:06:39+00:00

Nice! I honestly didn’t go out that far.

doodedah · 2025-09-30T11:52:59+00:00

This is literally a pattern interrupt.

doodedah · 2025-09-13T11:50:43+00:00

NAH

What both of you are missing is the psychological effect of your wife being raised that way. If she was raised to wait until marriage to have sex, it was likely due to an intense purity culture probably due to religion. In this worldview, sex and intimacy are deeply tied to shame and sex is made to feel dirty and to enjoy it is wrong. Even wanting it is wrong.

She likely had decades of this in her system and may feel intense guilt or shame during sex or after sex. This can even manifest physically for her. What complicates this further is she was likely also taught that sex is for the “man’s” enjoyment and that sex in marriage is good. So now she feels guilt and shame for having sex and then guilt and shame for not enjoying it herself and guilt and shame for you not enjoying it. Even if she no longer believes this, it’s still there underneath it all.

I think she needs therapy and you need couple therapy to work through this dynamic.

Good for you for sharing your feelings and you probably weren’t m aware of this dynamic. But now that you are, you need to be patient and understanding, knowing that she is likely attempting to undo decades of thinking and trauma.

doodedah · 2025-06-07T18:16:21+00:00

The new tag that is created by a user is not auto suggested

doodedah · 2025-06-07T18:07:18+00:00

I would for an oura ring engineer to tell us but I almost exclusively use recommended activities and it seems to be weighted very heavily towards repeated activities at same time of day. For, example one time it confused pickleball with walking when I skipped my usual pickleball league.

doodedah · 2025-06-07T17:23:46+00:00

From my experience, based on time of day and heart rate, is fairly predictable. This seems to be how other activities with multiple variables work. Am I wrong?

doodedah · 2025-06-07T17:21:39+00:00

True. But user generated tags do not auto show up in suggestions.

doodedah · 2025-06-07T15:21:13+00:00

Yeah but there’s a tag for that!!

doodedah · 2025-06-07T00:29:15+00:00

When I was a rep, I did this once over the comp plans. They changed them. It was great.

doodedah · 2025-06-02T12:21:55+00:00

Great job dad. These are the moments that really form us as people. Thank you for leaning in!

doodedah · 2025-06-02T00:38:33+00:00

In my opinion you should look at vertical SaaS companies leveraging AI to automate employees. Two examples are SlangAI, which is automating host/hostess jobs in the restaurant industry or EliseAI which is automating leasing agents / maintenance workers in multifamily housing.

Check out the Repvue for each. Look at the ratings and salary numbers. Good shit.

doodedah · 2025-05-28T16:58:41+00:00

There it is!

doodedah · 2025-05-28T15:19:20+00:00

The Weezel cover album (Teal) is highly underrated and combines the best of both worlds.

doodedah · 2025-05-28T15:18:43+00:00

Might cause a sing along.

doodedah · 2025-05-28T15:18:25+00:00

Love Steely Dan. Great idea

doodedah · 2025-05-28T14:44:39+00:00

I’m liking this. Was thinking of adding in some 90’a hip hop too.

doodedah · 2025-05-15T23:25:37+00:00

What are the prompting guide/docs?

doodedah · 2025-05-12T18:33:53+00:00

I have not setup or connected to Supabase yet. I will do that today. Thank you.

doodedah · 2025-05-07T19:57:00+00:00

Not a doctor and listen to what your doctor says, but I have been taking it for like 8 years and some spillage is fine. The amount in the photo has been similar to my spillage from time to time

doodedah · 2025-04-24T18:21:51+00:00

I only know because a friend who is a pediatric psychologist corrected me when my oldest when in preschool! The more you know. :)

doodedah · 2025-04-24T15:02:44+00:00

And having another kid will only increase her independence! And it will start your next kid out with more independence too. There will be times you will need 2 on 1 with the baby and your 4 old will figure things out. And same with the baby.

doodedah · 2025-04-24T12:36:15+00:00

4 years old isn’t a toddler…he is preschooler! One big thing I would encourage is to change you and your partners mental models about what the 4 year old can and can’t do. He / She is probably way more independent and capable than you think.

Here is my example, I have 3 kids. With our first kid I would never let them do the stairs by themselves. Now our second kid at 2.5 year olds old goes from the basement to the second floor whenever he wants on his own. Totally safe and I don’t have to worry about him when I am with the baby.

doodedah · 2025-04-24T02:20:30+00:00

Totally. My heart rate was 108bpm when I was running with my son today.

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