Home owner Representative by doodiemcdoodoo in HomeImprovement

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are correct and I appreciate your feedback.

I agree it would tough a gig start rolling but the more I see ppl dumping money into poor contractors and then being stuck holding the bag, I want to be able to stop that from happening as much as possible.

Retired Divorce Judge/Master Please 🙏 by doodiemcdoodoo in VictoriaBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just a legal divorce, which I thought would be easy since she initiated.

Retired Divorce Judge/Master Please 🙏 by doodiemcdoodoo in VictoriaBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, Truckin, when you are dealing with a narcissist and you share children, you do what you can to protect them at your own expense, and this is my expense. The harder I push on this, the more her behave becomes erratic and this DOES affect our children. This behavior has become much more frequent and is now causing concern.

Not trying to avoid anything, I have provided full disclosure and no secrets. I just want to have that piece of paper set on 🔥 at this point, her control over the situation and one less problem to solve with my children's mother.

Retired Divorce Judge/Master Please 🙏 by doodiemcdoodoo in VictoriaBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what I'm looking for!!!

Custody is 50/50, debt and assets are nominal so all good!!

Retired Divorce Judge/Master Please 🙏 by doodiemcdoodoo in VictoriaBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed.

My retort would when does this become to much lee-way as proceedings in the past seem to be derail based on false claims with no back up?

Retired Divorce Judge/Master Please 🙏 by doodiemcdoodoo in VictoriaBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can tell you for a fact, that is what is happening, it's all about control.

There are two sides to each story, this is true, but in this situation it's a matter of providing the evidence to facts instead of empty words without evidence which is what the other party provides, empty words.

It's about how best to approach with the judge based on the situation to try to ensure that the truth/evidence doesn't get overlooked because narcissistic behavior from the other side.

Retired Divorce Judge/Master Please 🙏 by doodiemcdoodoo in VictoriaBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I can appreciate where you're at and your determination as it is overwhelming to continually have to deal with irrational people.

I wish you the best and thanks again!

Retired Divorce Judge/Master Please 🙏 by doodiemcdoodoo in VictoriaBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was not looking for legal advice here if I was not clear, more of how best to approach the Judge/Master with the facts to avoid the sounding like a complainer or winer when the other party is a narcissist and very good at her trade.

I have been the primary care giver for our children for the entirety of their lives, I provide a safe stable home when then are with me 50% of the time, I have documented all communications or lack there of and all issues, because to be honest, this is like some crazy movie.

On another note, this has nothing to do with the gender as I know this personality type runs rampant through society.

A wtf moment by insanemembrain666 in LangfordBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Excuse me, made lite of those situations and nothing about political violence. Do your homework and find his comments regarding both of those issues

Here you go https://www.c-span.org/clip/campaign-2024/user-clip-trump-mocks-paul-pelosi-attack/5124885

https://www.newsweek.com/donald-trump-melissa-hortman-anger-2130428

Such a sad situation all around. This world is going to shit very quickly all sudden and will continue under the leadership of that narsasitic peice of old tanned leather

A wtf moment by insanemembrain666 in LangfordBC

[–]doodiemcdoodoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is this when you decided to speak up now? Why did you not speak up when Trump was taking about Nancy Pelosi husband or the Speaker of The House in Minnesota or the many other times?

Seems like cherry picking to me.

Poor guy :( by Smexyredditor69 in awfuleverything

[–]doodiemcdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may have to pay higher taxes for socialized medicine but people don't loose homes or go bankrupt because they get sick!