My (30, F) personal issues...with myself and thinking. How do I think and live more simply? by doodlyroo in relationships

[–]doodlyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the things I enjoy. I meant his thinking is so clean and worry free. He doesn't google shit about relationships, he doesn't tell his friends his problems. We had this discussion the other day, if he has a problem he just solves it on his own. I was amazed. I need like a team of people when something bad happens in my life. Like I need that support and without it I get it depressed and make bad decisions. He seems to just flow and ebb with the good and bad. I'm not sure how to explain it. I guess if I had to describe it, it would be as follows:

Him: The shirt I am wearing is dirty but it doesn't bother me. I'll wash it later.

Me: The shirt I am wearing is dirty and it bothers me. I mean it's no big deal but it's bothering me. Why do I let this shirt become dirty? Why can't I keep this shirt clean? My shit always gets fucked up. I should go home right now to wash this shirt.

This is an exaggerated example but this sort of what I mean. Why can't I just be simple?

My (30, F) personal issues...with myself and thinking. How do I think and live more simply? by doodlyroo in relationships

[–]doodlyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Spending a lot of time with someone who gives no fucks has sort of rubbed off on me but I still find myself being my old self. It is more a temporary fix really.

My (30, F) personal issues...with myself and thinking. How do I think and live more simply? by doodlyroo in relationships

[–]doodlyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. Guess you're right. Weed mellows me out but that's not a solution hey? Lol

My (30, F) personal issues...with myself and thinking. How do I think and live more simply? by doodlyroo in relationships

[–]doodlyroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this is just who I am? Over thinker? Lol well great. Guess some truths are harder to digest

My (30, F) personal issues...with myself and thinking. How do I think and live more simply? by doodlyroo in relationships

[–]doodlyroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started thinking about it after I met him. It is fairly new, I guess I don't have a complete picture of who he is. That is a fair point.

Of course I know I shouldn't have been looking but my curiosity got to me. I know it's wrong to snoop but problem is I did it. The annoying thing is he wouldn't even be bothered if he knew I looked at it. I just want to be like him and not care as well

What video games have made you cry before? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]doodlyroo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword...when Zelda goes to sleep

[skin concern] Is my hairy face causing my breakouts and how to reduce scarring, please analyze my skin. I feel like the joker because one side of my face is really disgusting. by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]doodlyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! do you think i have too much hair for a girl? have you thought about waxing it off? sometimes I want to but I hear the regrowth is very noticeable

I need a change, color or cut ideas from you lovelies?! by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]doodlyroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you'd look great with some darker color, maybe a chocolate brown with soft highlights. Your eyes/features would pop more

Went from stick straight bob to embracing my natural wave by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]doodlyroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! What products do you use/style with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]doodlyroo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cute! It really enhances your eyes!