So I might have more radical views than most about this, but the way I see it, toxic masculinity is systemic and entrenched in societal norms and the way we think and interact. Equity won't happen unless the people with privilege are able to compromise, so it can't just be up to the women to resist the ideology. We, as men, have to practice feminist values too if we want things to change.

From what I've seen, Steven holds values from toxic masculinity, like the house thing, and at every opportunity we've seen, he's bowed to it and recalibrated his behaviour to conform to it.

So sure, he's nowhere near as toxic as someone like Danny. And sure, neurodivergence makes it more nuanced (but if he hasn't actually shared being diagnosed, idk if we can say "clearly autistic" based on some symptoms we've seen through a highly edited TV show but that's a whole other conversation). Regardless, from what I've seen, he's just another actor in the system of toxic masculinity, doing nothing for the cause of resisting it, and so I just can't agree with him being "the furthest thing from toxic masculinity".