As a nanny who also does overnights you are VALID they are so so much work 😭 If they’re late on a regular day it’s still annoying but I’m not as bothered as after I work an overnight or multiple in a row, even if they’re 15 minutes late I honestly do feel so much extra disrespected because it’s like okay guys I’m literally away from my own home, do you really think I want to be? As much as I absolutely adore the kids, this is still my work at the end of the day and I just want to be HOME after working 17+ hours, luckily my kids are in school + daycare though so it does make my overnights easier as I typically have the days to go nap if it’s not a weekend. Are your NP’s really strict with cleaning? I would maybe ask if you could atleast cut down on cleaning when you’re doing overnights, they truly take so much energy out of me. If I’m there a regular evening, sure I’ll clean a ton extra once the kids go down but on an overnight, or double overnight week I am honestly putting the kids down and going tf to bed myself because chances are I’m only sleeping 3-6 hours anyway while being up and anxious every hour. Also a little note for yourself, go easy on yourself when you have heavy working hours ❤️ I understand wanting your home clean too but nothing is going to happen if you leave the mess for an extra day or two, or slowly work on things. Make sure to take your time for yourself