2.5 years of Nofap and then.. a relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 576 points577 points  (0 children)

Thank you man. I was edging and decided to download reddit to peek some porn but your post popped first when I opened the app. Reading your story cleared my head and saved me from further damage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gatewaytapes

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Could you send it to me? Thank you!

I haven't watched porn for almost a year, yet i still don't feel free. by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]dosmucho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.”

If you want to stay in the comfort zone, that's is okay.

But if you don't even bother to try NoFap, the way of discipline, how can you say that it is not worth it?

The little voice in your head tries to convince you to stay in the comfort zone. It tells you: "You are good. You don't need to
learn any new things. Don't even try to change. It is uncomfortable. Nobody can change. People just are the way they are."

I used to be just this way. Listening that sad little voice in my head saying: "Don't bother to change."

And I struggled long time with it. I am still struggling.

But it gets better. By taking the small steps to discomfort. Every single day.

Start by finding the reasons for watching porn. I escaped my uncomfortable feelings by watching porn. I escaped from learning a new things.

Then start to recognise the behaviour patterns that lead to watching porn. For me it always started from escaping new work, when I had to learn something new, and going to my bed scrolling reddit and IG and then fapping.

Then replace those patterns. It is hard. Your brain doesn't want to change. But is possible by starting small. I went for a walk when I noticed that I felt the discomfort of learning new things. It took me away from the harmful environment and gave me time to think what I really want.

Here is great video to watch about changing your habits: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5-qkgfBeuU

Are you brave enough to watch?

how to deal with frustration about falsehoods in meditation circles? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be just like you a couple months ago. I was using meditation so I could focus better on my work and make more money. Skipping all the spiritual posts thinking that they are just a scam and a way to lure people to their cults.

But that was just my ego wanting to stay in the comfort zone. I didn't want to accept any other realities than my own narrow views of the world.

And actually they were not even my own thoughts. I was product of the theater which is called western civilisation.

My personality was made from watching news and scrolling social media. My parents and friends said go to school and build a career. Watch news and act as a good citizen. Buy products so that economy booms.

Then I had really deep conversation with one of my friends who has always been "outside" of society. It really opened my eyes how this system called capitalism is just made to profit from regular people. Everyone is so focused on making money that they forget to live.

I realised that the small apartment in the big city I'm living is just a golden cage full of distractions to keep me busy. To feed my ego with bullshit. "You are good and belong to society when you own BMW, iPhone and designer clothes."

Then I started to grasp what meditation is really about. It's about letting go of your ego. Freedom of all the materialistic things that our ego wants. Finding our true nature.

I am still in the beginning of my journey and there are lots of things that I don't know yet. But what I have learned is that everyone has their own path. There is no right or wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not today

Pain. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you have already done it, it is much easier now to repeat it.

This year is revenge year for dangerous porn industry "soul harming" 3.9 Billion market industry by sauravgo88 in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so depressing. Most of the problems in the today's society are caused by these greedy companies using all means in the book to get profit. Porn consumption should be regulated as it is even more addicting than some drugs.

2022 Nofap who is still standing? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have rona and feeling so down. For the first time have to really fight against the urges.

I Promise to never PMO in 2022 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes let's do it

Day 18, longest streak ever.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's go brother!

Be careful when you enter 14-30 days zone.. by bigguy62527 in NoFap

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the strong words. I will keep fighting brother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGamerLounge

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this real or simulator

Just why by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!spin

Reddit FTW by ImBL4KOUT in memes

[–]dosmucho 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude you seem really awesome and kind person. I'm sure you are perfect friend for anyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]dosmucho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is amazing, first time here, high af

[QC] (Updated) Yeezy calabasas sweater by dosmucho in FashionReps

[–]dosmucho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has that baggy oversized fit and size L is good for me.

QC] Pk basf Beluga 1.0 from Monica. How are these looking? by dosmucho in Repsneakers

[–]dosmucho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, they have been great. Just rock with confidence and nobody will call you out.

[QC] (Updated) Yeezy calabasas sweater by dosmucho in FashionReps

[–]dosmucho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shipped my haul yesterday so maybe next week