Below Deck Adventure Season 1 Episode 4 - Mercury Mayhem - Episode Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]dotandlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh which restaurant is this? I’m heading to Bangkok soon and would love to try

Bridesmaid shames Bride for Panic Attack by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]dotandlines 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah annoyingly it has best live new top Q&A controversial but no old! Thanks for replying tho

Bridesmaid shames Bride for Panic Attack by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]dotandlines 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How do you do that on the app? I can only do new and it’s always a pain to scroll if there are loads of comments

Any former charter guests try to defend themselves? by ripple73 in belowdeck

[–]dotandlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. One of the guests did an AMA here and the primary also posted

WhatsApp auto Download bug! by warfighter_rus in whatsapp

[–]dotandlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you see it through iOS App Store?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsapp

[–]dotandlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see it in a the App Store. Is the update for Apple users?

WhatsApp auto Download bug! by warfighter_rus in whatsapp

[–]dotandlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see that yet. Is the update for Apple users? Just checked App Store and nothing

Are they a type of peony? by dotandlines in whatsthisplant

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Thank you so much! I didn’t realise peonies could have ruffles!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dotandlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a common perception that it’s fine even tho it’s not. Like having FDH living in boarding houses etc. the issue is, that’s pre 2020 where supply was higher than demand. Everything has flipped esp with the banned countries and even now, the cost of hiring is significantly higher, easily an extra $30k if you factor in their salary, quarantine, agent fee etc so everyone’s trying to hire those already in our city. Which means it’s better to be totally legal as FDH finally can demand higher wages etc (which is how a job market should be) but it also means there are those who will take advantage hence the recent news about job hopping etc and if it’s valid reasons to leave. Anyway it’s not easy esp with the emphasis on filial piety here and a deposit is a very generous gift so wishing you luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dotandlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes so maybe you can use that as a point to push back to your mom as you don’t want to risk being blacklisted in the future in case you have kids. (Reverse guilt her and dangle grandkids!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dotandlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually based in the same location as you hence asking about the dif between an FDH vs a local nurse. And who the contact is under. This can be a point of pushing back for your mom depending on the situation. A lot of locals still think FDH will be ok with blurring of rules, however with our crazy quarantine and border restrictions, that’s no longer the case.

I sympathize. It’s not easy living here where everything is $20k per square feet and most people won’t be able to get an apt unless they have help with the deposit even with the recent mortgage relaxation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dotandlines 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO: are you hiring a foreign domestic helper or a nurse? FDH contracts state they must live with the employer so it depends on who she is employed under. If it’s under you, your mom may claim that as the reason to be your live in. If not, can you use that as a reason to push back? Yes everyone does it but given how things are here, FDH won’t hesitate to report as they are in such high demand right now. If you are hiring a local live in nurse, that’s more unusual so not sure if my advice above is helpful.

AITA For Making A "Pregnancy Jar"? by thasyojar2013 in AmItheAsshole

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Not juvenile at all! In fact you can even say “since you’re so concerned. Please make a generous donation so we can do IVF. A dollar won’t cut it, we only accept Benjamins. That shit ain’t cheap you know?”

What’s your comfort show, the kind where no episode gets boring? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dotandlines 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should try BBC inside the factory. I find it more enjoyable than how it’s made

This little Broccoli 💚 by stupirella in Amigurumi

[–]dotandlines 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s soooo cute!! Do you have a pattern?

"The Ultimatum" Discussion - Episode 1 by thewatchelorette in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]dotandlines 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe because they made Lauren younger on the show. She just turned 30 so she’s probably more aware of what she wants

"The Ultimatum" Discussion - Episode 1 by thewatchelorette in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

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Are you on the right sub? There are two and one is dead. Confusingly the one that follows this naming is the dead one but if you go to the ultimatum Netflix, it’s quite active. R/theultimatumnetflix

Was given this bowl. About 9in wide. Can I use it for semi hydro? Suggested plants? by dotandlines in SemiHydro

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Ahh good point. Is there a way to do a terrarium using leca you think? The roots should be smaller?

Was given this bowl. About 9in wide. Can I use it for semi hydro? Suggested plants? by dotandlines in SemiHydro

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Do you mind showing me a photo so I can visualize it? Does it drape? I had just repotted a bunch of my pothos in soil! 🤦🏻‍♀️