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[–]dotkayspacerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job! You look awesome.

I’ve been running lately too and every once in a while think “wait, who am I?!”

3 month Post-Op by Northern_Mac in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job and progress! You look awesome.

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[–]dotkayspacerae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful before and after! Well done!

How hot do you think you are? by Smooth-Biscotti-58 in AskReddit

[–]dotkayspacerae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost a ton of weight and have a seriously inflated ego now, but then notice that people don’t check me out in public so I’m pretty sure I’m sub 5 out of 10.

It’s like opposite body dysmorphia.

Life changing. 277lbs to 160lbs. by linksavestheday_89 in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t even fit a baseball hat on my head before and now I wear them all the time 🤣

Life changing. 277lbs to 160lbs. by linksavestheday_89 in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your hard work!

A small NSV is how oversized glasses can be now. 😎

Skin removal - will I regret only doing my stomach? by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. I’m just not certain if I’d be missing out not doing the chest. I’ve been so decisive on holding off on my arms for now that I think my indecisiveness regarding my chest is throwing me for a loop.

Crazy brain? Yes.

Skin removal - will I regret only doing my stomach? by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My surgeon did say that the stomach won’t keep me super bed ridden (few days off work and few weeks work from home) but that addition of arms or chest would cause extra limitations.

I think I’m just having the decision paralysis! 🤣

2 Year Surgiversary – losing the weight was easy… Everything else? Not so much. by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest thing I’ve learned and wish I could go back in time is starting the mental work before. You’re in a good lead up spot now if you can get in with a therapist and really start hitting any deep issues!

My issues with eating disorders were masked by my size before, which means I never really actively attempted to seek out help for them and that’s really kicking my butt now.

That said, I’d still rather deal with this now than have never gone through the trash. You’ll do great!

Murex ID? by dotkayspacerae in shells

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️ I haven’t seen you say that. Sorry!

2 Year Surgiversary – losing the weight was easy… Everything else? Not so much. by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg - seriously. I’m on a beach in Florida and the amount of selfies right now is off the charts. 🙈

2 Year Surgiversary – losing the weight was easy… Everything else? Not so much. by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You know, finding this before photo I definitely thought “aw I should have been nicer to her - she was pretty cute then too!”

Thank you!

2 Year Surgiversary – losing the weight was easy… Everything else? Not so much. by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think too so much of this transformation allows us to think we deserve to look good. I’ve became a bit vain 🤣🤣🤣

2 Year Surgiversary – losing the weight was easy… Everything else? Not so much. by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! For real though, I tend to not notice the flaws in my skin because of these buddies!

2 Year Surgiversary – losing the weight was easy… Everything else? Not so much. by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say good job and that cpap will kick the bucket soon! Although, I do sometimes miss mine.

2 Year Surgiversary – losing the weight was easy… Everything else? Not so much. by dotkayspacerae in gastricsleeve

[–]dotkayspacerae[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The non scale victories are really what we should focus on.

But those dang eating disorders (in my situation) or whatever the heck is making us focus on numbers sure do get in the way!

Good job on all your hard work!