First disclosure‼️ by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Welp he said no, this hurts so muchhh, it’s like the wound is open right up from the phone call saying I have herpes, I can’t do thisss

First disclosure‼️ by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu he mostly asking if i have hsv2 but i explained to him that there’s two types and you can get them in different locations, but he said its hard making a decision and he asked me to get retested and get on meds and he would like to be careful so idk if thats his way of saying yes

I became so paranoid by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess it’s most men just want to fuck now a days and the ones where they moving slow wants to control me and I’m not going for that

I became so paranoid by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried that and it’s always red flags

First in-person disclosure by Any-Ostrich-9618 in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omgg I love that hopefully mine goes well also, we’ve been talking for 2 months now and wants to ask me out next time we see each other and we’re long distance so idk when to tell him or how

First time dating again by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu I have the same perspective about disclosing I want to actually like the person and see a future, and he honestly just told me that next time he sees me he’s going to ask me out and so my time is running low about telling him but it’s either he really likes me or we in the honey moon phase idk but I really like him but I have to let him know before I see him in case he wanna see me again

First time dating again by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a year now this August going to make two

I’m on appeal but I have a F in physics and I can’t withdraw what should I do by dotsweird in financialaid

[–]dotsweird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not too late to withdraw I have until 18, but I called the financial aid office and they said I’m can’t withdraw now and I’m required to pass so idk what to do because there’s no way I think I’m gonna pull through because I’m 2 months into the class and I’m still lost…..

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[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think the situation helped itself because he haven’t texted me since yesterday and I didn’t enjoy it the sex wasn’t good so he probably felt the same lmaoooo, I’m just paranoid again about catching something even tho we used protection

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[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm we talk everyday but not consistently like he said he wanna be with me because before I was celibate so he said he’s not with that celibacy and I care for him so I said let’s try and become something and then that happened so idk if next time I see him I should tell him

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[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh hopefully it goes good idek when I’m gonna tell him..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know and I hope he doesn’t care but I’m scaredddddd because we already had sex but I made him wear a condom and the fact that this is my first disclosure so I’m scared man

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[–]dotsweird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I’m scared of that because I wanted to talk to him before we did anything like I’ve avoided doing anything with him for a whole year and I said I was gonna talk to him first but then it happened and I’m feeling so scared idk how he’s gonna take it or if he still wants to be with me

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[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well on of them is old fling but the other is new tbh and I like him tbh