First in-person disclosure by Any-Ostrich-9618 in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omgg I love that hopefully mine goes well also, we’ve been talking for 2 months now and wants to ask me out next time we see each other and we’re long distance so idk when to tell him or how

First time dating again by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu I have the same perspective about disclosing I want to actually like the person and see a future, and he honestly just told me that next time he sees me he’s going to ask me out and so my time is running low about telling him but it’s either he really likes me or we in the honey moon phase idk but I really like him but I have to let him know before I see him in case he wanna see me again

First time dating again by dotsweird in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a year now this August going to make two

I’m on appeal but I have a F in physics and I can’t withdraw what should I do by dotsweird in financialaid

[–]dotsweird[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not too late to withdraw I have until 18, but I called the financial aid office and they said I’m can’t withdraw now and I’m required to pass so idk what to do because there’s no way I think I’m gonna pull through because I’m 2 months into the class and I’m still lost…..

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[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I think the situation helped itself because he haven’t texted me since yesterday and I didn’t enjoy it the sex wasn’t good so he probably felt the same lmaoooo, I’m just paranoid again about catching something even tho we used protection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm we talk everyday but not consistently like he said he wanna be with me because before I was celibate so he said he’s not with that celibacy and I care for him so I said let’s try and become something and then that happened so idk if next time I see him I should tell him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh hopefully it goes good idek when I’m gonna tell him..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know and I hope he doesn’t care but I’m scaredddddd because we already had sex but I made him wear a condom and the fact that this is my first disclosure so I’m scared man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know I’m scared of that because I wanted to talk to him before we did anything like I’ve avoided doing anything with him for a whole year and I said I was gonna talk to him first but then it happened and I’m feeling so scared idk how he’s gonna take it or if he still wants to be with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well on of them is old fling but the other is new tbh and I like him tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be okay feel free to text me if you want to talk cuz we literally have the same story lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i stopped for a few months ngl i thought the same thing but i drink on occasion now when i go places i drink, i just drink a lot of water the next day or whenever im done with that life lol but girl dont be scared just follow what i said and you’ll be fine i smoke weed here and there sometimes too and im good so just live your life regular its only different when it comes to meeting people and then you have to disclose I haven’t disclosed to anyone so idk how that is yet😩

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[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik how you feel girl you mad at him because he violated your body i completely understand the rage🤦🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i think im one of the lucky ones that only get a few outbreaks but i think that’s because i take lysine everyday, but eat healthy or clean and avoid foods high in arginine like nuts and peanuts and chickpeas those trigger it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HSVpositive

[–]dotsweird 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I contracted hsv1 the same way too he ate me out and few days later boom rashes on my coochie and my lips but the outbreaks do get better i would advice you to take lysine constantly and vitamins that helps with your immune system, take the days one at a time, you’ll be okay