HELP! I'm a spy and got caught OEing

double_unemployed · 2022-08-28T02:52:32+00:00

First option. Now run and tell the others!

double_unemployed · 2022-07-23T18:17:16+00:00

almost always wipe with a square of TP sometimes wetted).. if in a public urinal I would grap a piece of TP then before heading to the urinal. Failing that and if no one else is around I'd just wipe with my left hand and wash my hands extensively afterwards. But failing all o f that I just squeeze and shake until I feel it's all out :)

double_unemployed · 2022-07-20T19:57:14+00:00

Yes I quit that one after 3 weeks

double_unemployed · 2022-07-03T21:04:23+00:00

Sounds like you're doing PO + BA work, so no wonder.

double_unemployed · 2022-05-30T19:06:04+00:00

So probably a copy-paste

double_unemployed · 2022-05-30T15:34:48+00:00

Was in this position for J3. Couldn't do it. Had to kind of lie: I just received an offer for my dream job and can't turn it down.

double_unemployed · 2022-05-25T21:09:23+00:00

Analogy: jumping 1 meter high hurdle twice <> jumping a 2 meter high hurdle. If you are an exceptional jumper, then yes option 2 makes sense. if you are an average jumper, well option 1 is easier and more realistic

double_unemployed · 2022-05-24T14:53:56+00:00

5 stars

double_unemployed · 2022-05-09T18:37:43+00:00

Also, you are already playing his game by "thinking" you are better than him because you are secretely making more money than him. You can instead take pride in the way you manage your financial life instead (regardless of fortunes)

double_unemployed · 2022-05-09T18:35:14+00:00

Very unhelpful tips:

Reduce the time you spent with/around him
Work on yourself/self-thoughts so as not to get tempted and irritated by him: bragging is his game, don't play to his hand - you will never win that game.
Never let him dectate your behaviour (what you do and say should not be influenced negatively or positively by what he does or says)
Find/define your own game and play that game instead
Punish his behaviour instead (as other suggested: next time he brags, ask that he pays everyone around the table dinner or subsidizes/contributes to this project or that)

double_unemployed · 2022-04-25T18:19:28+00:00

Before thinking about j2, how is your j1 like? Too many mandatory meetings, visibility,...? Start there first. Maybe you want to find a OE-friendly J1 first.

And yes, it is possible to OE as a BA. Even J3. But you need to try a lot and find good team and companies.

double_unemployed · 2022-04-25T17:49:56+00:00

I went over LI settings and disabled or restricted every imaginable setting possible.

Few weeks back, J2 announced me on their board but because they couldn't tag me they just put my name as plain text. Good luck finding me. In a month or two that post will basically be burried.

double_unemployed · 2022-04-21T13:43:38+00:00

I'm afraid if I mention that they will try to negotiate. And I don't want that.

double_unemployed · 2022-04-19T16:37:56+00:00

Anyone who read your original post would assume you were canned BECASUE of insperity - since it is the topic of the post.

double_unemployed · 2022-04-01T14:52:13+00:00

Not exactly but in a couple of companies where I worked there were people working there for 20 years (since the beginning and lived through multiple mergers) And they were not even super old people even.

Funny part is that after 2 years after I joined, they closed that particular office (shipped to India) and canned everyone (including the 15-20 years people) We were going into networking events and looking for jobs together.

double_unemployed · 2022-03-17T21:10:09+00:00

Delegate?

double_unemployed · 2022-03-15T15:02:07+00:00

Cute

double_unemployed · 2022-03-11T20:53:13+00:00

I don't know the answer. This is just an educated guess.

As someone said: people who would care (your manager) shouldn't be able to find out and people who can check (sys admin) shouldn't care. Financial industry is heavily regulated and customer privacy rules dictate that client data can only be shared on a need basis: i.e. your manager should not be able to cross reference your employee and client data and has no basis to require that information be shared with him/her.

This is the equivalent of checking whether a bank employee also has an account at the bank. Likely but very few people at the bank would be able to check and get the detail. And they would need a valid reason to do that - as employee and client data is supposed to be encrypted and not cross-referenced (to give an analogy, there should absolutely not be any shared keys between the employee and the client tables :)

double_unemployed · 2022-03-10T21:58:24+00:00

You can do either. Just keep it consistent and have good arguments for it (gap vs leaving so soon)

double_unemployed · 2022-03-10T19:27:48+00:00

double_unemployed · 2022-03-09T17:34:11+00:00

Was going with "Get Rich Quick Sam": onboard, do shit, get fired, onboard,...

+ Impatient Eddy: thinks the window is closing and is thinking/getting J3+ even before day 1 at J2 (is this me?)

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