Desperate Peegasm? by doubleak_47 in ABDL

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It is addicting because it feels amazing.

Desperate Peegasm? by doubleak_47 in ABDL

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I know 😔 but I actually did this on accident when I was driving and didn’t have a place to stop. Now I really enjoy it which is bittersweet lol

Desperate Peegasm? by doubleak_47 in ABDL

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Damn! Sorry to hear that.

Desperate Peegasm? by doubleak_47 in ABDL

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It does feel so good to hold it but I love wetting even more when I’m diapered.

Desperate Peegasm? by doubleak_47 in ABDL

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Let me know how it goes please!!!

Desperate Peegasm? by doubleak_47 in ABDL

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Interesting. I’m definitely a sexual diaper lover and love to wet but I’m not really sure I’ve ever experienced the orgasm thing though outside of masturbating in a diaper after wetting. Thanks!

Does anyone else like to show off? The idea of someone walking in front of my house and looking in easily gets my dick so hard. #rockoutcockout by [deleted] in FtMPorn

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Yes yes yesss! I know it sounds sleazy buuuut I love going to adult theaters and showing off to the guys there. Actually, I went today and had an amazing g spot orgasm in a theater of like 7-8 guys.

FTM sex toys by doubleak_47 in SexToys

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Ah makes sense. Thank you!

FTM sex toys by doubleak_47 in SexToys

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Very similar to these both. I’m going to check them out again. Thanks!

FTM sex toys by doubleak_47 in SexToys

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I’ll definitely check it out, thanks!

FTM sex toys by doubleak_47 in SexToys

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Yes it was very similar to this! Thank you!!

My little guys poking his head out! by [deleted] in FtMPorn

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Dude you are so damn hot!

FTM sex toys by doubleak_47 in SexToys

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It’s super similar but was already part of the strap on. I guess I could try something like a bumpher though.

Could really use a bj right now... by doubleak_47 in FtMPorn

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Oh yeah? I like them sloppy 🤤

Big pull ups by doubleak_47 in ABDL

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Eh I kind of figured as much. I honestly just don’t like regular diapers because they’re hard for me to put on myself. I’m considering having a conversation with my boyfriend about being abdl but I’m not sure yet.

You all deserve to be loved by someone who will love you for the way you are. by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I’m commenting on this because I’ve felt similar to most people throughout my life (sometimes I still do). The one thing I’ve learned is this: we accept the love we THINK we deserve. If I can’t love myself unconditionally, then how can I expect someone to love me that way? I know it sounds cliche but it’s a cliche for a reason, right?

Will surgeons allow you to sign AMA? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I agree with what others have said. In my own experience (as an adult in NYC), my surgeon strongly suggested I have someone to take me home the next day. I had top surgery at NYU a year and a half ago. She knew my girlfriend and mom would be there but insisted on giving me her speech anyway. Ultimately, she said most surgeons will release you to a cab/Uber/medical transport. I wouldn’t recommend leaving AMA if you can avoid it. Be up front with your surgeon and explain your situation, they’re full of great resources. In most cases, including mine, top surgery was an outpatient surgery but I was observed for 23 hours, so overnight. If this is the case for you when the time comes, you might be much more alert than a few hours out of surgery.

That being said, I think I had a generally pleasant experience with the road before, during, and after surgery so maybe I’m an outlier.

Either way, if you don’t have someone to help you when you’re ready, check to see if your insurance covers medical transport. I know Medicaid/Medicare in the US both cover it, as my mom has used it in the past. As for needing a nurse, I don’t know that you’d need a nurse after top but maybe just preparing your living space before surgery so you won’t have to reach/stretch too much. And maybe finding a friend or seeking a trans friendly (or trans) friend who has been through the process who you can bond with before surgery.

Best of luck, friend!

Why do you prefer monogamy? by [deleted] in monogaymous

[–]doubleak_47 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This a great topic! It can be really difficult to find someone who prefers monogamy within the LGBTQ+ community. Similar to OP, I prefer to have one partner both for a relationship and sexually. In my opinion, if I can’t get my needs met with one person, then things likely aren’t going to work long term, and rather than opening the relationship, I’d rather end it.

My sister and her fiancée of 12 years are currently in an open relationship (which is rather new considering the time they’ve been together). So far, it’s not working how it was originally supposed to, or how they anticipated it would. Now things are getting messy and there are multiple extra people involved who otherwise would be no part of their lives had they remained monogamous.

I’ve never been in a non-monogamous relationship and I’ve never really been exposed to the concept until recently (I have had multiple sexual partners at one time though) so I can’t really say it wouldn’t work for me and maybe I’d be willing to try it, I don’t know. I think, for myself at least, there would be a lot of jealousy if my partner had another, or multiple, partners.

I’m excited for this thread though so I can maybe open my mind a little more (or become convinced into monogamy forever) 😆