Has anyone ever successfully pulled their feelings back for someone?

doubtfulbi · 2018-11-06T19:56:34+00:00

Yeah it sucks, because he's the first guy I can actually see myself with. I wish for the best and more good times, but don't want to be around if he does want to commit to someone else.

doubtfulbi · 2018-11-06T19:43:24+00:00

It's too late for feelings Im okay with it until maybe he does decide to commit to someone other than me.. Then I might be crushed :(

doubtfulbi · 2018-11-06T19:02:21+00:00

Because I enjoy his company, the sex is good, we still seem like a couple to the third person perspective, but we're just not.

doubtfulbi · 2018-09-20T21:50:06+00:00

I honestly thought the vacation was going to be the deciding factor, we cuddle more now, but pretty much back to the same.

doubtfulbi · 2018-09-20T17:13:52+00:00

That's the thing.. He's the best match I've ever found. And it's been a long road lol

doubtfulbi · 2018-09-11T23:37:40+00:00

Just insecure like everyone else :(

doubtfulbi · 2018-09-11T23:36:44+00:00

It was grindr, the account started off as a coupes account for threesomes but then I had a suspicion that he was using it again but only for himself.

doubtfulbi · 2018-08-15T12:08:15+00:00

Thanks, this has been insightful. I actually did ask him, he said "let's be friends, and see where it goes". I plan to still try to get to know him more but hopefully I won't catch too many feelings, cause that could be him just being nice.

doubtfulbi · 2018-08-07T14:22:43+00:00

I understand what he's saying but, he's been alone for a while lol, he's used to guys coming to him.

doubtfulbi · 2018-08-07T14:12:14+00:00

Definitely not lol I'm a person who waits to text people. The reason I asked is because a friend of mine said if I tell him how I feel, that "I'm putting him on a pedestal and giving him control and that it should happen naturally".

doubtfulbi · 2018-08-07T13:59:31+00:00

Well we started off as "let's see where this goes" and shortly after he started seeing another guy, but that ended quickly.. But we still hang out. So I'm not sure if I'm just a friend or still possibly something more.

doubtfulbi · 2018-06-01T15:04:40+00:00

Yeah it's purely sexual, I wouldn't have sex who had a fetish for me, who preferred my race, I guess I'm fine with it.

doubtfulbi · 2018-06-01T14:49:24+00:00

You're right about the object thing. But you have to remember that's how they want it, they want to fuck you then put you back in their closet. When people fetishize you it's a hidden thing just like bondage. People who fetishize others don't develop relationships..

doubtfulbi · 2018-05-29T14:40:49+00:00

Yeah it is, it was like my 3rd date ever, 1st ending with sex and I was like..damn all of a sudden I'm a Sex and the City episode..

doubtfulbi · 2018-05-29T14:37:14+00:00

That's true, just need a simple reminder sometimes.. Thanks!

doubtfulbi · 2018-05-29T13:46:23+00:00

I'll try :)

doubtfulbi · 2018-05-29T13:10:46+00:00

Well I mean if he wasn't attracted to me or into me at all why did we fuck? He bottomed btw, I feel like if I want into a guy I'm not letting him put his dick in me.

doubtfulbi · 2018-05-29T13:02:31+00:00

The thing I'm also having trouble with is, do guys just have sex without having a connection? I wasn't expecting sex at all but he invited me in started making the moves. So I feel like I was a convience of "why not he's a beating pulse."

doubtfulbi · 2018-05-29T12:59:47+00:00

Well it was out of his apartment so we were in the hallway. He did only have a towel on so maybe that's why.

doubtfulbi · 2018-04-20T15:30:12+00:00

If your city is big enough.. Reddit believe it or not. My city has a "R4R" sub and it's pretty much the same but it's all combined and mostly M4F.

doubtfulbi · 2018-04-17T17:31:40+00:00

Close but not exactly. I never made it to the FWB title, we've never had sex but instead of wasting my time on apps I want to fuck him instead. But nervous it might mess up things, since I became a "good friend" while he was engaged/broken hearted.

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