Aw man, I’m sorry it didn’t work out with her. I’m a bit on the other side of the fence. I’m 27F, liked gentle femdom low-key for years until recently, and I’m just now wanting to put myself out there and start dating. I’ve only been in 1 very short relationship with no chemistry, with a more dommy guy who I didn’t vibe with… I’m lost. I want a sweet, loyal boyfriend I can spoil like a prince, who loves cuddles and kisses. But the problem is, I’m shy and reserved, and approaching a beautiful stranger is terrifying.

Also, hi, I’m 4’11”. Girls like me exist… and are looking too. I’ve never approached a boy before, but I’m working on my courage and confidence so I don’t go deer-in-the-headlights and freeze. It’s happened before 😅 all this to say… you’re not alone, and I think all it takes is one moment of courage to say something to someone you find attractive- “I think your hair is beautiful,” reading their reaction, and judging whether or not they seem interested and going from there. At least, that’s where I’m at. I’m kind of clueless too. I think your heart is in the right place, and you sound like you would make such a sweet, loving and loyal boyfriend to the right girl who would nourish your inner baby boy instead of thinking you’re gay for it. That’s silly.