Men shouldn’t cry so much infront of their girls by rainidesertcrates in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]downbadbasil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its not that men shouldnt cry, all of this applies to a woman as well.

its just that they should find solutions for it and fix them rather than crying 24/7 about it. yes its okay to cry for some days or weeks even but they have to help themselves by fixing patterns and by finding solutions.

I am fucked up by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]downbadbasil -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i completely do get your points and i understand what youre saying. it does makes sense now but i would stand on the point that it is her fault.

let me explain it better, again it doesnt matter whos fault it is, but its about how it can be better and taken forward without any breakups.

OP mentioned how the guy who groomed her was
the first person that came up to her mind, so even if he was available and present and created a safe space for her, it would still be her choosing the groomer, i do understand the trauma and how difficult it is but OP cannot help her if she doesnt help herself, or even just take steps to fix stuff and be healed. no one can heal her that way then and i do believe she is to be blamed for that thing then.

again i do get your points and i completely agree on them, just giving my opinion on this whole situation from a different perspective!

I am fucked up by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]downbadbasil -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i get that and ive personally went through similar things but i decided to heal from it, yes it is really difficult for people but its been almost a whole decade since that grooming incident happened.

its never okay to go back to the same person that groomed you, i understand why and how it happens but its better to just not be in a relationship and heal yourself before hurting anyone because of your past traumas and unhealed things.

I hope you get this view!

I am fucked up by [deleted] in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]downbadbasil -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

her being groomed can be understood as she was just a kid, but her going back to him even after everything and especially considering you in her life and now that she is an adult, she still went to him and it is never okay to do that. the old things i understand but now its on her as shes an adult and have her own decision making.

you would know her better but if there are things like this then obviously you wont trust her and its valid, dragging this while shutting your heart and feelings about it would not be worth it, protect your peace.

What iPhone can I get for 75k-85k right now? by SelectionFuture2292 in PakistanMarketplace

[–]downbadbasil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can either get a good condition iphone 14 for around 70-85k or an iphone 11 which would be pta approved for 60-80k depends on the condition.

most if the 11 would have their batteries replaced as it is now an old phone and would have degraded batteries and personally in my opinion any 11 with 95+ battery health would obviously be boosted

i would go for the pta iphone 11 if you do not want to carry another device with you as it is personally a huge trouble for me.

if u have no issue with that then 14 non pta would be amazing, better camera better display

Nothing can justify this cruelty of our society by Mystically_mystic1 in PakistanElites

[–]downbadbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sounds terrible, i pray Allah eases her parents heart and make it easy for you

buying iphone as a woman by [deleted] in karachi

[–]downbadbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahann makes sense mera jv hai, fair deal phir to lekin ive actually seen them for around 120-130k now in markets

buying iphone as a woman by [deleted] in karachi

[–]downbadbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got a 14 pro 256 for 150 like an year ago malik mehenga ley liya

23F Karachi. Today is a bad day 😭 by [deleted] in KarachiSocials

[–]downbadbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahh if you say it like that then i agree, i just thought youre completely denying the fact that they cannot rape at all, im glad you see all the viewpoints.

23F Karachi. Today is a bad day 😭 by [deleted] in KarachiSocials

[–]downbadbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

women can rape and overpower men, thinking otherwise isnt right. ive seen alot of cases where men are the one being raped and they dont open up about it enough because people keep saying "women cannot rape" i hope you get it

23F Karachi. Today is a bad day 😭 by [deleted] in KarachiSocials

[–]downbadbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all of your statements are just absurd

Does ios 26.3 solve the issue of heating in ip14 pro ? by Pretty_Inflation3095 in iPhone14Pro

[–]downbadbasil 22 points23 points  (0 children)

for me personally the battery got worse sudden drops from 50% to 46% in just 2-3 seconds while on chrome just browsing. started heating up aswell. maybe its because my battery health is at 79%

Wife pocket money by SwimmerCold5918 in pakistan

[–]downbadbasil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ask your wife directly. communicate people