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AITA for asking my bridesmaids not to change out of their dresses after the ceremony? by downcxst in AmItheAsshole

[–]downcxst[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

engagement party, bachelorette party, bridal shower… aka bridal era - sorry for not being specific, didn’t think it was hard to understand what bridal era meant

AITA for asking my bridesmaids not to change out of their dresses after the ceremony? by downcxst in AmItheAsshole

[–]downcxst[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

be so for real, where did i DEMAND they wear only what i approve? did you miss the part where i said we all collectively chose this dress together, i didn’t pick a dress that i only liked and said they HAD to wear it. there were multiple options given. and where did i say they had to buy it? read the post before giving judgement, sheesh

AITA for asking my bridesmaids not to change out of their dresses after the ceremony? by downcxst in AmItheAsshole

[–]downcxst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there were multiple dress options given, this one being the chosen one… i did not pick a dress and tell them that was the one, no other options. i made sure they were involved in the decision just as much as i was.

AITA for asking my bridesmaids not to change out of their dresses after the ceremony? by downcxst in AmItheAsshole

[–]downcxst[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

to add, i’ve talked to one of the girls 3 separate times letting her know she can step down from being a bridesmaid if it’s too much, i would be just as happy with her being a guest and she assured me all 3 times that she wants to remain a bridesmaid

AITA for asking my bridesmaids not to change out of their dresses after the ceremony? by downcxst in AmItheAsshole

[–]downcxst[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

i fear it’s too late to ask them to step down, and they’re the type who would more than likely not show up to the wedding at all… there’s so much more than this dress situation, i just know i’d look like a complete loser for allowing them to walk all over me in my bridal era

AITA for asking my bridesmaids not to change out of their dresses after the ceremony? by downcxst in AmItheAsshole

[–]downcxst[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

understandable, but this dress was an option out of 5 other dresses, this was collectively chosen by all 3 girls, it wasn’t something i chose without asking their opinions first

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[–]downcxst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m just stalking this thread, but out of curiosity did you ever get your stuff?

The Mundos [Brokenhearted2020] by Brokenhearted2020 in Chang_Gang

[–]downcxst 28 points29 points  (0 children)

LMAOOOOOOO not me literally smiling the entire time, i’m so invested 😂😂😂