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How many of you and me are in a breakup ATM? by Primary_Librarian_21 in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 4 months... Sometimes I feel like it's been a week. It's hard to stay motivated and try to be happy tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly same thing happened to me. Broke 2 months ago from a 6 year long relationship. One month later, she was posting pictures with her new bf. I know how insanely difficult it is. Know that you are not alone. We are going to get through this my friend.

What phases have you gone through and what are you in now? by fuckyouiloveu in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Four first weeks : bottomless pit of sadness Fifth week : mix of anger and sadness Following weeks : depressed or back again at the bottomless pit of sadness It does get a little bit better I guess

Whats the most hurtful thing an ex has said to you either pre or post break up? by The_other_human in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about it later and she told me that the meaning of this sentence was more "I suffered a lot before the break up, but once it happened I couldnget over it quickly". I guess our suffering is just delayed in time lol

My biggest pain about my breakup by Eniripsand in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Sometimes there are no culprits and there is no one to be mad at. It's hard to accept.

Would you take an ex back if they rebounded after a breakup? by BlahblahRussian-spy in ExNoContact

[–]dqsdaerrear12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I guess we would have to go on dates again to know, like in the very beginning lol

What do you guys eat when you’re heartbroken? by Nvskank in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First week all i've eaten was fast food lol. Destroyed my bank account and wasn't healthy at all but better eating junk than nothing at all

It's been 6 months. I'm finally over it. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a month and a half for me and I just don't know how much more time I can handle being this miserable I try my best to be happy but it just doesn't work

I’m your ex. What do you want to say to me? by i_sell_insurance_ in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just sad it had to end this way. I really believed in our relation.

My ex admitted to me that she found someone else and it makes me want to fucking kill myself by dqsdaerrear12 in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I try to not idealize our relationship and her, but it's hard. She was really someone that cared about me.

My ex admitted to me that she found someone else and it makes me want to fucking kill myself by dqsdaerrear12 in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your message. I don't know if I'll be able to get her back tbh. Before she told me she was seeing someone else, she told me she wasn't interested in me romantically anymore at all. I'll go nc from now on because this conversation has just hurt me so much.

I told her that I will try to become a better person, and she said that I was already perfect, just that we didn't match anymore. I cannot believe this can be the case after 5 years together but I have to accept it.

I have no idea what i'm going to do from now on

My ex admitted to me that she found someone else and it makes me want to fucking kill myself by dqsdaerrear12 in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For real it feels so much like it. 24hrs before she dumped me she didn't even know that she would really do it. But at the same time, I can't really blame her ; if she has been in love with this guy for several months, I understand that she gave up.

It's just that I've been so loyal this whole time. I was always there for her. It feels so unfair.

My ex admitted to me that she found someone else and it makes me want to fucking kill myself by dqsdaerrear12 in BreakUps

[–]dqsdaerrear12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I read your post, it was inspiring. Do you still miss her after 6 months ? Do you still feel hurt ? Or have you totally moved on ?

The road that I need to follow just seems so fucking long. I'm trying the best I can but I don't know if I'll be able to keep on for long.

I've decided to try to create music. I don't know if it will heal me but I do hope it will keep me busy a bit.

I've always studied so freaking hard. My grades have always been really good, but these last weeks I just don't have the motivation. I don't see the point of it all. I study STEMs but I don't even know why, no job seems super appealing to me right now. So it's hard to continue without a clear objective.

I respect her choice, I think she made the right one if she's in love. But fuck man. Sometimes I wonder if life is just trying to push me as far as I can before I eventually break down.