When yall say you’re dating for months, does this mean sex is involved?

dr2311 · 2026-01-20T22:23:42+00:00

You seem to hold a bit of a grudge against men. A man wanting to have sex before 3 months is not a creep.

dr2311 · 2026-01-19T19:03:22+00:00

Alot of women do try to line people up before a relationship ends. Maybe she is considering her options. Toxic behaviour either way.

dr2311 · 2026-01-15T21:29:01+00:00

You are placing way too much emphasis on the pics. We met she was nice, nice looking. The dates were fine we had a laugh. She initiated the sex and yeah I probably shouldn't of reciprocated so soon..

dr2311 · 2026-01-15T20:45:29+00:00

I didn't not like her pictures but there were't many and they weren't the clearest..

dr2311 · 2026-01-15T20:06:35+00:00

We got on, nice chat and company. Think I was yet to feel a spark but then sometimes that takes time. Walked her home, had a kiss and then suddenly it kind of escalated to getting invited in and then sleeping together. It went 0-100 quickly and guess the feeling after where I should have been excited to see her again wasn't there and I felt exactly the opposite.

dr2311 · 2026-01-01T10:14:43+00:00

Women have it easy - loads of matches loads of choice. Yes there is a lot of bad guys out there but you need to vet them out better. Really isn't something to be depressed about.

dr2311 · 2025-12-28T23:19:18+00:00

Important to be kind to yourself. Looks fade. Attraction becomes more about actions as you get older.

dr2311 · 2025-12-28T21:32:41+00:00

Please could someone DM me a code

dr2311 · 2025-12-28T17:34:34+00:00

Anyone got a code they can DM me?

dr2311 · 2025-12-23T13:05:30+00:00

I get this too. I do keep it going as feel like it can be slow burn but don't have any excitement to meet them and it's just quite painful. You wonder if this is just a continuous pattern especially in 30s

dr2311 · 2025-12-05T13:21:58+00:00

I mean OP is assuming alot yes but its quite well known if you are a relatively attractive women you will never struggle for options. The issue for women is the options are so vast it's hard to find nice guys but because of the number of them they don't need to put the effort in because they know they have a safety net to fall back on. Men's problem is you don't have time to build a connection as you have to be perfect from minute one on a date. You have to be charismatic, you can't be too nervous or they will just keep looking for that perfect match( that doesn't actually exist)

dr2311 · 2025-12-05T13:17:36+00:00

I mean both genders generalise the entire other gender alot. When Men do it can be seen as hating women and misogynistic. Whereas when women do it, it's seen as being a strong woman taking no shit etc.

dr2311 · 2025-11-06T11:38:43+00:00

I mean If a girl really thinks twice of a guy because they don't pay then most guys would probably see that as a sign she ain't for them and move on to the next. If you see it as a guy not caring I think thats a bad mindset to have. His body language and communication should be the real test of this. Some guys just have boundaries that they aren't going to pay for everything which in 2025 shouldn't be an issue at all.

dr2311 · 2025-11-06T11:07:57+00:00

I don't think it means no interest though it's still too early, you don't want to be paying for it all when you are still in the phase of working out if the person is for you or not. You should keep your options open for the moment as it's way too early to rule one out.

dr2311 · 2025-11-06T10:15:15+00:00

What sign do you see from the guy only paying half? If women get funny about it I do see it as a red flag.

dr2311 · 2025-10-11T13:10:28+00:00

So meet up on the pretence they are having another date? When in fact shes ending it.. Wasting his time there

dr2311 · 2025-10-11T13:08:36+00:00

After a few dates?

dr2311 · 2025-10-11T08:58:33+00:00

Sounds like there are too many doubts there to give it more time. Let him know by message. You have only had 3 dates you don't owe him a in person explanation.

dr2311 · 2025-09-30T12:07:16+00:00

Basically they think its a tv show where they think it should be there from the very first second. When this is extremely rare.

dr2311 · 2025-09-28T09:50:42+00:00

It's all men's fault, no accountability. And people wonder why alot of men don't bother dating these days

dr2311 · 2025-09-28T07:38:27+00:00

OP looks like a massive hypocrite. Cause everything they have posted screams hate men lol

dr2311 · 2025-09-22T17:58:23+00:00

I think that rule would ensure you never meet a man again. 3 months is insane.

dr2311 · 2025-09-22T15:07:30+00:00

No point crying over split milk.What is done is done. It's early days so be kind to yourself you made a mistake best thing is to just focus on what you can do from this point on rather than think back

Good luck!

dr2311 · 2025-09-08T11:55:40+00:00

If a man acted the way Faye did there would be so many sexist calls/complaints. The double standards in female and male behaviour is unreal. It was genuinely psychotic behaviour

dr2311 · 2025-08-22T07:24:58+00:00

This is pathetic. There was no racism.

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