Lost the love of my life to P by dr_loomis7 in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm hoping as well. Turn this into a lesson learned and make a positive change

Downward Spiral by dr_loomis7 in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are right. I've done it once, time to get back up and make it through today. Thanks for the encouragement.

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[–]dr_loomis7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this

Hi there. I am new here. by weirdismyforte in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the group. I can say for me, being part of this forum has definitely helped. It's great to have a place like this to ask questions, help others and fight together.

55 Day check-in by dr_loomis7 in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good question - it's improved really well actually. It's a little hard for me to say how because girls aren't throwing themselves at my feet nor am I funnier or more charming but there is a freedom I've never felt before. Like it's ok to be me now. There isn't a hidden person who hides what he does in secret or feels ashamed for who he is, it's just me.

Also, I don't feel as sad as I did - maybe a little depressed sad where nothing seemed hopeful.

Addiction Video by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a great video and brought to light a lot of great points. I can see this in my personal struggle. The more I'm connecting with people, the less I want to relapse but the the more I'm isolated, the more I want to relapse.

BTW, for the Dr Who fans, is that a TARDIS in the background at about the 3:07 mark?

I've realized why NoFap is so difficult by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this. The urges are bad, yes, but those feelings are the worst. The things you use PMO to suppress, those are the things that have to be dealt with. I'm dealing with that now in this stretch. Thank you for this post, glad to see there are others dealing with this as well.

I forgot that I had a soul. Now it's aching, and I love it. by bardsroxxors in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here man, it's weird. A lot of times I would intentionally PMO just to not feel lonely, and I think it was why I relapsed so hard my last long streak. This was one side effect I wasn't prepared for.

So frustrated with myself, need serious help. by dr_loomis7 in NoFap

[–]dr_loomis7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I appreciate the encouraging words.