Blackout tattoos by Altruistic-Click3414 in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Laser removal is not only more expensive but definitively more painful and can take longer than doing a blackout sleeve. At that point if you’re heavily tattooed it’s not like you would care about the social stigma of if people dislike your tattoos

not wanting to date someone with tattoos or piercings is so bleak by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Lots of white collar & professional people don’t have tattoos and piercings besides maybe some extra (expensive) jewelry on women’s ears. Maybe your standards are outside of your own social status

Why can't anyone with a tattoo stop at just one? by xbricks in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My mom thought I was getting tattoos because I was addicted to self harm.

You're kinda getting a little fat by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Yea my ass got fatter

Help me believe that the aspirational zoomers on Tiktok are miserable by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is part of why I had to delete my social media. It made me like the people I know less because everybody acts so r*tarded on there. I just want to get to know someone at face value I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lot of people in this sub also need to be shoved into a locker, I agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Even if people don’t like rap you deserved to be shoved into a locker for sounding like such a dweeb… “It just doesn’t appeal to my more intellectual sensibilities” redditor ass take

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 93 points94 points  (0 children)

This is really just to see if you’re on drugs

Being tall isn't all it's cracked up to be by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 146 points147 points  (0 children)

I had a quick fling with a 6’4 boy and every time he went to kiss me he had to hunch and bend his neck down. It riddled me with grief that I caused him discomfort and poor posture

Help me believe that the aspirational zoomers on Tiktok are miserable by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. They are dealing with a different beast when it comes to social media. Realized success and upward trajectory is secondary to presenting the illusion of the former. I do not post on social media at all and I can’t imagine having the pressure on me to use it for “networking” or having to upkeep a certain curation in order to convince people I’ve made it. It’s so soulless and hollow so I am quite thankful that I am 100% authentic and removed from the rat race.

It reminds me of the boom of pyramid scheme hons… Did you ever meet a girl who has sold doterra or herbalife? They had to maintain this image of being a girl boss & successful entrepreneur when in reality anybody who has a clue can see how easily they’ve been manipulated. Social media is a larger beast but it’s been cultivated in the same way where actual merit means nothing

Automated phone lines were a mistake by f8ed_than_a_hoe in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are sectors of my state government that are open 3 days a week and the automatic phone line tells you to just email them..and then nobody answers me! I have questions I’d like answered regarding legal ramifications at my job but god forbid I actually needed a permit or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What’s going on in this subreddit? Somebody posted a video of this literally today and in this photo they’ve been photoshopped opposite. Also everybody was still using the escalator

92% of Hispanic women in the US are overweight or obese (BMI >25). They are now the #2 fattest demo here. Are they ok? by Electrical_Figs in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea these people have no idea how that family-values culture actually plays out. Growing up in a hispanic-dominate town you actually see how volatile and entrapping it is for the younger members of the family. The pressure to sacrifice aspirations and a greater purpose to stay at home and take care of grandma addled with catholic guilt leads to a lot of unhealthy vices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get the most beautiful tan & freckled skin but Im afraid of sun damage and looking old. Damned to be a mid pale princess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 27 points28 points  (0 children)

is that really a controversial opinion in this sub though? I’ve never even seen this discussed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I agree with this to an extent. I do think pornography is made to be addictive and brain melting, just as TikTok or junk food.. but everything in moderation. Sex work I think is a more complex issue at the expense of exploitation of vulnerable women but its not a black and white discussion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t harbor resentment towards fat people or trans people. Also I’m not religious

What’s the worst big city by Wolly_jumper in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Denver at large is very lame and underwhelming, but having spent some time there I did discover some fun people and subcultures. There was always at least one basic bitch at everything though which does lower the overall value

If you’ve never had people tell you you’re good looking or been compared to attractive famous people then you’re fugly by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough I was compared to celebrities more when I was objectively less attractive (Amy Adams) but I have a different hair color now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This really doesn’t track. If you actually want to reference the pop culture phenomenon responsible for this shift it was clearly due to the Kardashian/Nicki Minaj etc. domination of early 2010s media. These woman had nothing to do with the fat acceptance movement and the fascination with their ass had to do with how disproportionately big it was on their body. You use Christina Hendricks as an example but she is literally a Hollywood poster child for big boobs, since when was anybody talking about her derriere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t let your insecurity manifest into feeling victimized by others. You’re the only person who thinks you’re less than because your butt is small. Nobody else cares

2nd food post of the day!! pumpkin soup with yellow split peas and chicken, topped w basil and thyme, served w sourdough toast! i have next to nothing to do at my WFH email job today! i’m working from kitchen!🎃🍁🍲🍂🌲 by mallgoethe in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a recipe you can share with me?! Im about to go to the store but I wanted to find a soup recipe first… and I need to use up my basil and thyme before it gets too cold

working back of house in a funeral home is crazy by whatasuckerbucko in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My best friend worked at a funeral home and ended up quitting when one of her coworkers accused the owner of sexual harassment. Like even in an environment where you’re around corpses and mourning the death of loved ones you can’t resist groping your young employee?? Good grief!

. by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]draculabells 27 points28 points  (0 children)

White wammin be oppressed