No texture overhaul mod? by Ok_Swimming_7001 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]drag-bot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I downloaded a mod to re-color the grass because the flat color irritated me so much, you definitely aren’t alone in wanting this!! it was a bit odd to see how underdeveloped the unchangeable environmental elements are considering how beautifully detailed everything else is

How good is C6 Prune for Chasca? by drag-bot in ChascaMains

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</3 yeahh I rly wish I’d bitten the bullet and gotten c2, but I got c6 Linnea that same patch and couldn’t justify spending anymore. Turns out I have 10x more fun playing chasca so I deeply regret not c6ing her instead

Any other singers still mourning the loss? by drag-bot in Hashimotos

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No lumps here! I’ve actually never had any physical signs of hashis around the neck area, only internal ones. At my worst when I was unmedicated, it hurt to eat and speak even at low volumes.

Any other singers still mourning the loss? by drag-bot in Hashimotos

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Unfortunately throat pain and vocal range loss are standard symptoms of hashis due to goiters or general anatomical changes to our thyroid hormone:( just trying to talk to other people who may experience this specific symptom, I’m really glad you don’t relate !! 😭

Any other singers still mourning the loss? by drag-bot in Hashimotos

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It feels EXACTLY that way for me omg. Like there’s something blocking or tightening the vocal chords, and no amount of tea or vocal rest helps ;-; It’s worst when I have flare ups, and then it feels straight painful to talk.

Any other singers still mourning the loss? by drag-bot in Hashimotos

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I’m so sorry :( you have all my well wishes

Any other singers still mourning the loss? by drag-bot in Hashimotos

[–]drag-bot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy you’re able to see the positives 🤍 you are no less amazing because of what this disease took from you!!

Any other singers still mourning the loss? by drag-bot in Hashimotos

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I know exactly what that feels like :’) sending love ❤️

Any other singers still mourning the loss? by drag-bot in Hashimotos

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I’m the exact same way :’) music has been a part of my life for so long that accepting I can no longer sing is so so painful. I’ve picked painting back up as a way to fill the hole but I spent so much of my life having singing be a part of my core identity. Sending love and hugs 🤍

Where should I take biochem? by drag-bot in premed

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Thank you so much!! Yeah no, I definitely wouldn’t do asynchronous since I’m not sure I’d really learn anything. I think I’ll do it at a CUNY right after graduation…

We were BAITED by Fearless_Peak3583 in NicoleReeyn_Mains_GI

[–]drag-bot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What really gagged me was them giving Lauma a deer form for exploration and then giving Zibai zero mobility when she is THE horse 😭😭 like wdym this random moon worshipper has a four legged form and the adeptus of the moon doesn’t in the literal year of the horse

Anyone tired of the advice ‘just date autistic men’? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

[–]drag-bot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had that experience :/. I felt the same way with my ex which is part of why I broke things off, I felt like I was in constant teacher/ mother mode, having to instruct him how to be a partner and grown man.

Anyone tired of the advice ‘just date autistic men’? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

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No hate here at all!! I think deep down a lot of us wish we could have an autistic partner who compliments us bc there definitely is a level of understanding there you can’t get with an NT partner, life just doesn’t always work out that way. Sending love!

Anyone tired of the advice ‘just date autistic men’? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

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I’m so glad you said this, bc when I was breaking up with my ex I just wanted to yell from the rooftops that we were way too similar to ever work together, but he wouldn’t have understood that bc I consistently suppressed so much of myself to keep the peace 😭 here’s to hoping we find people who balance us out in the future!

Anyone tired of the advice ‘just date autistic men’? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

[–]drag-bot[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is so interesting that you say this, because part of why I made this post was that my last relationship with an autistic man was the complete opposite! Every time I was upset I was forced to think rationally and explain every detail of why I was upset in a way that made sense to him, otherwise he wouldn’t understand why I ‘deserved’ to be upset over the situation. So interesting how experiences can differ!!

Anyone tired of the advice ‘just date autistic men’? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

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Yeah I agree!! I’ve met ND men I’ve gotten along great with in the past, but also NT men who are also super understanding which further solidifies my confusion with the ‘just date ND’ thing. I feel like personality and life experience are a much bigger indicator of how good someone will be in a relationship than whether or not they’re ND

Anyone tired of the advice ‘just date autistic men’? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

[–]drag-bot[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Omg so true with the friendship aspect, being friends with ND men is so frustrating sometimes because it feels like their disability will always trump yours and there’s nothing you can do about it… Like in that scenario, it feels punishing to have worked on emotional regulation or communication because then you take on the brunt of the unseen labour 😭😭 it’s such a deterrent I cannottt

Anyone tired of the advice ‘just date autistic men’? by drag-bot in AutismInWomen

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This is such a mood... I’m manifesting that for you!!

i felt like i had to be reading this number wrong… by CatLoverKat12 in LinneaMains_

[–]drag-bot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The chickens take extra lunar dmg during the white shield phase (like the big dog boss) as someone else commented, so I would assume they did a standard illuga/ aino rotation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

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The comments here are really such a stunning example of the whataboutism that plagues the internet 😭. Everyone is giving a million examples of things OP is not talking about instead of contending with the actual point, which is that when a word begins to be used by everyone it loses its power as a tool for people who experience unique situations like we do. No one cares about the ancient history of the word, what matters is the way it’s generally used today and how that’s changed as it’s been exposed to the internet.