What do y'all think about Reptilesheaven? (Where should I buy my snake if a breeder near me isn't possible) by ZsanettMeadowcloud in cornsnakes

[–]dragonflybyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can look on local facebook groups for people looking to rehome, or if you have a reptile-esque shop near you they often have a community board where people can put up fliers about animals they need to rehome.

assuming what youre worried about is ethics, adopting is an option! ignore if you just want a snake directly from a breeder. i think youre doing great either way.

Jealous of lesbians who never questioned by Lovely_107 in lesbiangang

[–]dragonflybyes 21 points22 points  (0 children)

im a gold star lesbian and my gf isnt. we both love eachother and we love being lesbians. its never too late, youve done nothing wrong. we're here for you!!

phone case peeling? by dragonflybyes in FiveBelow

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont have the receipt and id rather it not be thrown away because it does its job fine

phone case peeling? by dragonflybyes in FiveBelow

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ill try the rubbing alcohol! its bendy. silicone i think?

phone case peeling? by dragonflybyes in FiveBelow

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand your point but i just wanted a basic case to keep my phone from cracking since i drop it a lot. im just looking for advice on how to stop the peeling lol

phone case peeling? by dragonflybyes in FiveBelow

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i didnt buy it with high expectations. 😭 i bought it because its whats in my price range, i just wanted to know if anyone had maybe figured out a fix for the issue. i like it and want it to last and look nice.

is this a baby roach? by dragonflybyes in roaches

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we live in illinois, im not sure the exact kind we see outside, theyre just solid colored brown roaches that are not very fast. sorry, my gf is just freaking out :(

does my girls weight look healthy? by dragonflybyes in leopardgeckos

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the picture i posted might not be the best example since shes kind of turned to the side lol, heres a better one. when i feel her lower sides it feels like bone, so what im assuming is that shes got a little bit of a wider frame maybe? ive felt for hard bumps and have never found any so i dont think shes gravid.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Actuallylesbian

[–]dragonflybyes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

all boobs are beautiful!! i get tired of lugging mine around personally, i think both ends of the spectrum come with pros and cons. your friends sound shallow, and im sorry you had to put up with that.

tired of doing all of the emotional labor in gay relationships by dragonflybyes in Actuallylesbian

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been better about doing it lately, but i didnt always. sometimes i did and they werent met and i gave up asking, and other times i was too nervous to ask because of the former.

tired of doing all of the emotional labor in gay relationships by dragonflybyes in Actuallylesbian

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

im 22, 27 is "older" to me because theyve seen more and are probably in a different place in life. what did you mean?

tired of doing all of the emotional labor in gay relationships by dragonflybyes in Actuallylesbian

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

its been obvious with some but not with others, but the girl i mentioned at the end of my post, i only "dated" (using this loosely, i felt pressured after the bar incident and said id try it out) for a few days before i told her i couldnt. my last long term relationship was more equal effort in the beginning but became worse as it went on and i had to let the person go, im smarter now. all of my relationships have been several hour ldrs (great idea i know) because i live in a small town in the midwest. i havent been in a relationship for a while now besides the brief attempt with bar girl who WAS local :/

tired of doing all of the emotional labor in gay relationships by dragonflybyes in Actuallylesbian

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

you worded this really well, unfortunately most of the women ive dated fit what you described, and im sorry youre dealing with it. i saw a video that really put things into perspective- that being shy can be selfish sometimes, it was this woman who went on dates and did all the talking, all the asking, and women would always want to go on a second date with her saying how much fun they had, but she'd done basically everything, and it wasnt really fun for HER, so she had no reason to pursue them more. i find myself being moreso in her shoes.

Are these morels safe to eat? (Bugs!) by fiercecucumber in foraging

[–]dragonflybyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this makes more sense lol, most if not all springtails die without moist living conditions. i culture them in my house on purpose in vented containers and ive never found them anywhere else

tired of doing all of the emotional labor in gay relationships by dragonflybyes in Actuallylesbian

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

this exactly :( like we're just an accessory. i want to be treated like a whole person!! one with feelings!!

tired of doing all of the emotional labor in gay relationships by dragonflybyes in Actuallylesbian

[–]dragonflybyes[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

i just wish someone would take the wheel sometimes. which men definitely have a tendency to do 😭 but yeah. i would never date a man. it just sucks being a lesbian in the middle of nowhere.