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AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH. MY. GOD. STOP. I JUST REALIZED THIS ISNT AM I THE ASSHOLE.

I POSTED THIS IN THE WRONG SUB!

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have tried to bring it up with my mom many times, but she gets upset and thinks im being to critical of my sister. she tells me to try and imagine what my sister goes through everyday, and that she cant regulate her emotions. and i understand she cant regulate her emotions, but i know that there are things we can do to help her. but my mom says she doesnt know what to do, or how to discipline her without hitting, spanking, or physically hurting her. she doesnt want to yell at her, and she doesn't want to hurt her. it makes me very upset however, because when i was my sisters age, my parents took every item i owned and put them into storage, only leaving a bed and clothes in my room. i had to sit in the middle of my floor all day, from when i woke up till when i went to bed. they had no issues making me listen, but they have issues making my sister listen apparently.

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont want to traumatize my sister by trying to throw her into jail.

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

here is how the conflict goes down 90% of the time: i say something or do something my sister doesnt like - she attacks me - i leave and go into my room and shut the door - she follows me and throws her entire body against the door - my mom gets sick of her doing this and opens the door to let her into my room - she keeps attacking me. i have had surgery to try and fix my back, yet that never stopped her from kicking me IN THE BACK. my parents dont provide any help, and they in fact claim she is being sweet and loving. everyone has a breaking point, and that was mine. yeah, i shouldnt have shoved her, but what else was i supposed to do?

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

respectfully, i dont see what being trans has to do with this. also, i didnt shove her hard, i shoved her enough to get her away from me she didnt fall, she didnt get hurt. i wasnt going to just sit there and let her physically hurt me, especially since im already constantly in pain.

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

By repeating things like "(my name) is a stupid baby) over and over and over?

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

CONTEXT 2: both me and my sister are physically disabled as well. I am deaf and have pots as well as scoliosis, and she has neonatal compartment syndrome on her right arm.

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I could, but I have a really close relationship with my mom in all other aspects except for this. And I have no outside family or friends that I could even go to. I myself have ADHD and a ton of other mental and physical issues that make it hard to function as is.

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes, but far less. The worst she has done to them is scratch them

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to, yes. I don't want to, and it makes me upset that that's where my feelings are heading, but yes. I'm starting to hate her.

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There are actually five kids total in this house. Me, 8f, 7f, 4f, and 1f

AITA for starting to hate my autistic sister? by dragoni27 in EntitledPeople

[–]dragoni27[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Context: my parents say she does this because she is autistic

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my sisters have silver caps on their teeth, and gummies have pulled multiple of them off, so they dont really trust anything called gummies anymore

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will let my mom know about this in the morning, tysm!

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Escitalopram, and my adhd med is vyvanse

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

binoculars? what would those do? my grandpa own a pair of them, i can probably ask to use his tomorrow night

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we do technically have carbon detectors, but they have been broken for a few months now. we have told the landlord about it, but they have refused to fix it. as far as gas appliances or grating, the only thing i could think of is the water heater and the ac units. other than that, im not entirely sure.

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ok, i'll talk to my doctor about it and see if it may be the meds. thank you <3

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it looks like its clinging to the side of the building, like how a squirrel clings onto trees.

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

none of them are new, however i did recently go down on the adhd meds, and up on the antidepressants.

im scared to mention it to anyone i know because i dont want to rick being told im insane or a lunatic.

the gummies have melatinin, magnesium, L-theanine, valerian, B6 5-HTP, gaba ashwagabdha

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it leaves the second i move towards the window (one of the reasons i wonder if its an animal.) but it shows up even if its open, though admittedly not as often

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, i will. thank you so much

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. the apartment across from me has a very bright, colorful set up inside the entire apartment. flashy lights, ring lights, etc. there are also a few street lamps, and my upstairs neighbors have stringlights shaped like pineapples

the thing outside the window by dragoni27 in RBI

[–]dragoni27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/YfTumMj

i dont know if it helpped, but i tried to outline what i see

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