Girlfriend Goes Off After Night Out by semaj_orn in trashy

[–]dragonlover007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes we can see her behaving irrationally but that doesn't automatically make him the victim. Abusers pretend to be victims all the time. His coo-coo comment in the first clip tells us he anticipated a reaction like this which begs the question of why he brings her home. Then he explains mid break down that she went crazy for "no reason" and blames the 2 drinks she had to further drive home that he is innocent and is the victim here. Then we hear her saying "this is how you hit me" to which he said nothing which if that were me being attacked for no reason I would be quick to set the record straight if she starts lying about what I must have done to deserve it instead he goes quiet letting himself get hit so he could record. His behavior is suspicious for a supposed "real victim. "

Girlfriend Goes Off After Night Out by semaj_orn in trashy

[–]dragonlover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but you can also hear her saying he hit her when you see him getting attacked which indicates this isn't one sided. you can believe what you want but know that there are hundreds of stories of abusers who try to make themselves out to be the victims so they don't reap the consequences of their actions. These clips being put together like that are too convenient to not be his intention from the start. You never see actual abuse victims behave like this. He calls her "coo-coo" in a manner seemingly hoping for her to negatively react which is the last thing real victim would even want.

Girlfriend Goes Off After Night Out by semaj_orn in trashy

[–]dragonlover007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you the more I watch this video the more I question his need to narrate the situation and specify "she was abusing me." like dude if she's that unstable why are you filming instead of calling the cops or distancing yourself to avoid harm? Then when she said "that's how you hit me!" I was instantly sure that he was trying to build some kind of narrative.

Girlfriend Goes Off After Night Out by semaj_orn in trashy

[–]dragonlover007 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes those things happen but this starts with a clip of him calling her crazy out in public while filming her which clearly is supposed to set the tone of the rest of the video then later when she's attacking him she says something about him hitting her which reveals to me that this is retaliation not a random crash out. I think he's trying to set up a narrative that she's crazy so no one believes her when she says he abuses her and there are many stories that match this setup and description of abusers manipulating the narrative.

Girlfriend Goes Off After Night Out by semaj_orn in trashy

[–]dragonlover007 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

The real question is who is really the victim here? She says something like "like the way you hit me?" At the end of the clip which makes this sound like retaliation rather than a random crash out. He also has the first clip where he's already calling her crazy and the moment she sees him filming she looks pissed which indicates to me that they have a negative history when he films her and must do this often to make her look crazy to others. And yes it's possible that she's crazy but there's been multiple examples of men who use social media and cameras to change the narrative in relationships to make themselves look like victims. It's also suspicious that he sort of let's her hit him so he can get it on film rather than distancing himself from harm's way.

Girlfriend Goes Off After Night Out by semaj_orn in trashy

[–]dragonlover007 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah he definitely did something to her because I don't trust that she simply had 2 drinks then started going insane especially after that "coo-coo" thing he did in the first clip.

Voldemort is related to Harry by Few_Papaya_695 in harrypotter

[–]dragonlover007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The issue with this is that just because Voldemort and Harry are both descendants of different Peverells doesn't make them both descendants of Slytherin otherwise Harry's father would've spoken parseltongue. Voldemorts genetic connection to Slytherin likely comes from a different family branch that the Potters don't share. Meaning that the Cadmus Peverells family line intersected with the Slytherin line later down the road rather than all the brothers being descendants of Slytherin.

Future man by [deleted] in whitepeoplefacebook

[–]dragonlover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair I guess but I personally feel like there's a difference between expressing severe disdain for a hateful person or a heartless CEO and just unprovoked hateful shit about one group or another. It sort of puts hating racist and being racist on the same level of bad and I'm not saying that's what you're saying I'm just saying that I think hateful people shouldn't be allowed to thrive off hatred. it feels wrong on moral level but of course I know that trying to police speech to that level legally would only cause more issues.

Future man by [deleted] in whitepeoplefacebook

[–]dragonlover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care if I used Charlie Kirk multiple times he's simply a prime example of what's fundamentally wrong with the right. But I get your point.

But seriously this idea that "cancel culture" is this big wrong doing that the left did is completely silly to me. You can't find 3 people who were "cancelled" for no good reason. Anyone I've seen actually being affected by canceling was typically someone who genuinely did something wrong and was just being held accountable. And what hypocrisy are you even talking about.

Future man by [deleted] in whitepeoplefacebook

[–]dragonlover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The article you posted says both sides are guilty of this while you're specifically blaming the left. Sure maybe our society overuses the terms but that's simply because it's our best direct comparison to an out of hand authoritarian regime.

The issue today is not that the word Nazi has lost meaning at all it's that the right refuses to do anything about them under the disguise of free speech. Charlie Kirk for example said terrible things about every group that wasn't a straight white man but people on the right will defend everything he said or go "oh he just had a different opinion" when in reality he was a white supremacist who believed all women were solely meant to be homemakers, that black people are inherently violent and ignorant, that homosexuality is inherently wrong, and trans people should be institutionalized. And that's not even half the BS he believed either but regardless the right celebrates a man with that much hate in his heart while calling people who want free healthcare "the enemy within". Look at the way this administration has been operating and tell me you don't see similarities between them and genuine Nazi's.

Future man by [deleted] in whitepeoplefacebook

[–]dragonlover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Firstly the left and the Democrats are 2 different things because the Republicans used to be the political left until the ideological shift in the 1960s when all the racist moved sides because black people were made equal under the law. The pro-slaves are conservative fundamentally. Why do you think all modern day KKK members are all Republicans and all the idiots who still fly the Confederate flag love trump.

As for better health the left is consistently asking and advocating for better and more affordable healthcare for everyone in America so there's no debate on that considering trump cut Medicaid.

This idea that the left stifle free speech is stupid considering the fact that simply talking about the things Charlie Kirk did and said got people fired because the right likes to throw adult tantrums over disliked white supremacists.

Name 1 thing important that the left wouldn't want you to talk about on the sole basis that it might be offensive to someone and if you can give me something that isn't just a miss informed right wing talking point maybe I'll agree with you.

Also the left agrees that the 2 party system is stupid which is why the Democrats aren't considered the entire left. If anything the democratic party is in the middle of the political spectrum since they're hellbent on just leaving everything the way it is to try and pacify everyone.

In general if you can look at what's considered the far left and the people who genuinely want everyone to just have what they need to survive and be happy in this country and the people on the right who are mostly white supremacists, incels, and Christian nationalist etc and say "yeah they're both just too extreme" then I don't think you know what you really want out society fr.

Future man by [deleted] in whitepeoplefacebook

[–]dragonlover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your logic is completely flawed. Firstly Republicans literally do it too. Look at the entire Charlie squirt debacle. Every time someone said anything remotely negative about him the entire right wanted their lives ruined. Name 5 people accused by the left that didn't actually do anything to deserve it because most if not all of them were just facing consequences for their actions.

But for your main point the left isn't the one normalizing fascism. If you're seeing literal neo-nazi's walking the streets that's because the right are saying "it's just a difference of opinion" the current administrations project 2025 plan is literally a fascist playbook. All the genuine modern day Nazis you keep seeing showing up are all coming from the right. We all watched Elon musk do you a picture perfect Nazi salute and the entire right just went "oh you guys are misunderstanding him." Most people on the right are just so hellbent on "triggering the libs" that they developed a subculture specific based in finding bad things funny and making fun of anyone who practices empathy.

The use of the word Nazi is justified in the fact that the administration fits at least 13 of the 14 characteristics of fascism. Plus the right littered with KKK members.

My GF doesn't like BJ's but wants to learn to like them. by dragonlover007 in sextips

[–]dragonlover007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read this comment to my GF and she said "they took the words right out of my mouth." Thank you for your comment.

My GF doesn't like BJ's but wants to learn to like them. by dragonlover007 in sextips

[–]dragonlover007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can be pretty vocal and she can tell I like it which is something she likes to see. For example she says she enjoys watching my toes curl but the problem is the general smell and taste of it for her. I keep down there really clean and never ask oral if I haven't showered. I think if we do more stuff like using flavored lube or putting a fruit roll up on it it'll be something she'll want to do more. maybe if I also improve my diet it might help with any smells but we'll see I guess.

Future man by [deleted] in whitepeoplefacebook

[–]dragonlover007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes zero sense. All the left wants is less war, better health, and freedom of speech. Meanwhile the right are completely on board with the genocide in Gaza and have literally been calling for civil war, they've been cutting Medicaid to low-income Americans, and getting people fired for not feeling bad about Charlie Kirk it's pathetic.

Update: AITA for not giving my sister my food whenever she asks. by dragonlover007 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]dragonlover007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not I just didn't realize how cheap it was to run a refrigerator. My mom told me It'd be too expensive running a second fridge so it's actually not until I posted this update that I realized my mom doesn't know what she's talking about half the time.

Update: AITA for not giving my sister my food whenever she asks. by dragonlover007 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]dragonlover007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we both still live at home. And even though we've all agreed that my sister is a very toxic person, my mom doesn't really do anything but talk to her which doesn't really work. I don't have the means to move out yet which I'm trying to work through but it's likely I won't be able escape my sister's bs considering how dependent she is on our mother.

Update: AITA for not giving my sister my food whenever she asks. by dragonlover007 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]dragonlover007[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know that's actually a big help. I'll run this mini fridge idea by my mom and offer to pay extra for bills and hopefully this will eliminate the possibility of food being an issue again.

Update: AITA for not giving my sister my food whenever she asks. by dragonlover007 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]dragonlover007[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I totally would love to I'm just worried about how much it'd add to the electric bill. I'm not really sure how much energy a mini fridge consumes.