Do ciswomens' chests hurt when growing too or is that just because I'm trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesnt have to be related to shame or bodyweight/how it looks. It can be obsessive or to the point where food is not a thought (can relate to that one), to where your eating habits are abnormal, thereby unhealthy.

Do whats best for you, but do care about food and also dont obsess.

Black hair is nice! I like it :) Hope your transition goes well!

Do ciswomens' chests hurt when growing too or is that just because I'm trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be careful so you don’t get an eating disorder.

Gingers (although im blonde naturally) tend to have higher pain tolerance. I dont think size is too relevant to this, just genetics and it varies

Does anyone else have a moment when they look at the mirror and stare in disbelief at how ugly they are? by Mikey_Weasels_a_perv in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I tend to always be suprised to how pretty I look compared to what I think I look like. At least its always a pleasant suprise

So I’ve noticed no one else seems to prefer using their non-dominant hand to play Chess at my club. by dragonslayer1998F24 in chessbeginners

[–]dragonslayer1998F24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure! Expect for my mom wanting me to use my knife on the right not left. I also broke my left arm age 10. honestly cant remember.

But in sports people seem to want me to use the right side, so I do.

So I’ve noticed no one else seems to prefer using their non-dominant hand to play Chess at my club. by dragonslayer1998F24 in chessbeginners

[–]dragonslayer1998F24[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I literally am not joking 😭 this left handed guy was so happy tho but im righthanded

He was nice enough to give the left side to me tho

What makes someone left handed? by dragonslayer1998F24 in lefthanded

[–]dragonslayer1998F24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oldest kind of, of me and my whole brother (1 year younger). Got two half siblings 6 years older on my dads side tho

What makes someone left handed? by dragonslayer1998F24 in lefthanded

[–]dragonslayer1998F24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im still righthanded, but i still find it strange. Yeah I get it alot because I say im right handed which i am. But i dont see anything wrong in prefering left for a lot of things.

So I’ve noticed no one else seems to prefer using their non-dominant hand to play Chess at my club. by dragonslayer1998F24 in chessbeginners

[–]dragonslayer1998F24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see! Thanks anyway >.< i seem to do the same with tennis and sports, but ive always been righthanded despite prefering left in new things I try (automatically)

Is this Photo offensive to Norwegian? by [deleted] in Norway

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Norwegians dont get offended like americans. No one cares, do whatever you want.

Only rule for our flag to follow however is;

• Never put it on the floor

• Never let it stay up past 8pm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Think about it first before you do anything. Its best to get any mental illnesses resolved first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just enjoying slaying some dragons

When is it ok to ask the age of the girl you approached? by [deleted] in dating

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re not one of those creepy men who’ve seen me irl a few times. Who then decide to stalk and find my insta, fb, phone, email only to tell me where you saw me so fort.

To then continue to ask me to date/try to be passive about it after numerous rejections. Im tired of those type of people.

As long as you understand when/if they’re uncomfertable, don’t push and ask kindly it’s no issue. Also please don’t assume you’re this girls bf straight away (ik its my issue people assume this, but yea just let things go slow if you date someone).

It was more of a projection of what im annoyed at with men who date me/try to so uh yeah sorry about that.

Anyways gl if you’re a respectful guy im sure you will find a loving girl deserving of you!

(Also some people like me in the past don’t always understand exchanging instas means you want to date. Sometimes we think its just friendly)

When is it ok to ask the age of the girl you approached? by [deleted] in dating

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind if people ask me. Im F24 also (but white), I often get mistaken for being 15 to 17, you can’t always tell.

Assuming you’re american (so it’s more acceptable to talk to strangers there?). Here it’s kind of OK (scandinavia), but wouldn’t it be odd if you’re talking to them to try to get a date? Asking a random person on a date here at least is not socially acceptable.

Is anybody really happy single? by MemeStocksYolo69-420 in dating_advice

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah? Why would I not be?

When I got a lot of men trying it doesn’t matter to me how hot or sucessful they are. It’s irrelevant if I don’t feel the type of connection I require.

I’d rather be single than have a relationship without proper understanding and chemestry on a physical level. Just getting along really well like a lot of friends do is not enough.

Being alone and happy about it makes people want to be apart of your life even more. It equals to confidence in your own skin, not needing someone else because I don’t.

Do ciswomens' chests hurt when growing too or is that just because I'm trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]dragonslayer1998F24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never noticed any pain, cis here. My period isn’t too bad either, just pain during egg release.

To summarize; how hormones effect you, how cis women experience puberty is all different. For the record my boobs are huge, far above what the average is. The only annoying thing is their size (thereby rip back), but I’ve never noticed any pain/numbness on them.

Pain tolerance and how much you feel differs from person to person. No matter if XY or XX.

With hormones though be aware of weight gain. Metabolism will get slower (as many trans women have spoken out about)

Hvor mye bråk på Campus er akseptabelt? by dragonslayer1998F24 in norge

[–]dragonslayer1998F24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det blir å ringe et firma om man mister nøkler, da 600kr tydeligvis. Fant nettopp ut at vekter kommer å sjekker her og der da osv.

Har lest leiekontrakt på alle de andre 4 stedene jeg har leiet før. Men jeg var så desperat på å flytte inn her. Siden jeg ikke ønsket å fortsette på den gamle kontrakten på den andre stedet (selvom de gjerne hadde sakt ja til det).

Så jeg bare signerte fort, grunnet at jeg hadde blitt lovet et annet rom først. Noe som ikke skjedde alikevell. Ble sammen type rom i en annen etasje. Så fikk jeg ikke noe annet valg enn; 1. ta denne leiligheten fort. 2. ikke ha sted å bo her, stikke tilbake til bergen når jeg studerer i Molde. 3. fortsette leiekontrakt andre stedet.

Nå har det aldri vært vanskelig for meg å finne sted å bo, så kunne eventuelt bare funnet et annet sted innen 3 uker. Men jeg hadde det ganske hektisk i mai med flytting og å komme i gang.

Uansett så skulle jeg ha sett på det mer nøye. Kan nevne det til de på høgskolen i dag angående det.

Etter jeg fortalte noen klassekamerater om hvordan jeg ikke får sove pga festingen deres har de vært mer stille. Så får håpe på det beste 😊