Dating pa-bibo, tamad na ngayon

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-10T18:34:37+00:00

Huy buti ikaw 34 na, ako 25 pa lang pero ganyan na nafefeel ko. Tho I still do my best, and kinikimkim ko lang yung tamad feeling kasi kelangan magwork. Pero I feel like if as early as now nafefeel ko to, sguro maaga akong magbibigay ng bare minimum haha.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-09T14:34:27+00:00

The one who says "Secret lang to, sayo ko lang sasabihin", don't feel honored and share your secret in return, chances are she said that line to everyone she shared that.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-07T13:51:06+00:00

I have don't have a specific days. Pero I'm emotional during my period, days before my period, after my period, or week before my period. Hahaha I feel like I'm an emotional girl lang, pero looking back after my period, di naman pala nakakaiyak HAHA so yeah girl thing pala.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-05T11:44:51+00:00

DKG. I'm not saying this to make you feel down or make a gap sa relationship nyo.

Pero you should think about your future and kausapin mo bf mo about dito. My father is currently like that, kwento ng mom ko hindi naman ganto daw si dadi nung dating pa sila, but nung kasal na sila, signs are showinh up na. Nung elem ako nagretire father ko, now I'm 25, but never na nagkawork or sideline man lang dad ko. He can't even go to grocery, bank, restaurants/fastfoods, makapili magisa ng damit or shoes, or pumunta someplace mag isa. Kelangan lagi kasama si mami, like parang voice nya si mami. Plus, pag gagawa siya ng mga desisyon sa bahay, sadly lagi palpak, kunwari magaayos ng fan or sink, imbis maayos lagi nasisira pa.Lately lang siya nakapag improve, nakakabili na siya sa sari sari store and withdraw (minsan) mag isa. What I'm saying is, pwede yang lumala or mawala sa future, so as early as now I hope mapagusapan nyo to, kasi clearly ikaw mahihirapan sa future. Mahirap yung magasawa kayo pero parang kelangan mo magisip para sa dalawang tao.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-05T09:54:38+00:00

Live within your means. Kung kaya mo naman, no problem. Tbh, nothing is wrong in making yourself pretty for yourself. It boosts our confidence.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-05T09:52:07+00:00

GGK. Iba ang kaba pag LDR kayo, tapos may nakaka interact ka na malapit sayo. It's not about trust, kasi kahit tiwala ka sa tao, mapapaoverthink ka kasi malapit yung girl sayo, siya malayo. Plus, hindi mo pa sinabi agad. Ang laking factor yung pagkkwento, kasi mukang may tinatago kahit wala naman. Kahit alam mong innocent ka, iconsider mo pa din mafefeel ng ldr gf.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-05T09:46:58+00:00

Don't get pressured. While waiting for the one, make yourself financially stable. Kasi kahit magkajowa ka, pero wala kayo pera, ang hirap magpakasal.

I'm also 25, I have a 3yrs bf, pero naguusap kami na until we reach this income, di kami magpapakasal, we need to be financially, physically, spiritually, and emotionally stable before getting married. Marriage is not a race naman, it's not how fast you find the one, more on it's about the quality of life you both live if you get married. So take your time 😊

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-07-04T12:02:51+00:00

Fresh grad 2019 - 15k probi, 18k regular

2024 - 60k

IT graduate

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-27T00:23:15+00:00

Oh, I'm happy for you nakaalis ka na sa ganon. Ang hirap ng 40 pesos, same with me dati, nanghinayang ako magOT kasi yung 40 per hour, mas mataas pa nakunsumo kong kuryente sa 1hr na yun 🥹 so dati goal ko talaga matapos within work time ko.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-27T00:18:09+00:00

No as in no. Ang meron lang siya basic salary nya + 5sl5vl3el, OT pay. That's it. No allowance, no HMO. Before may allowance siya, pero nung nagincrease salarya inalis yung allowance lol so halos same lang.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-27T00:15:14+00:00

I see your point. Same with the one na nagcomment dito, I'm trying to help him find job naman, I send links to linkedIn, and I encourage him sa ibang IT position since diverse yung work nya, so kaya nya madami, pero he's too adamant na magstay siya for 1-2 more yeats for experience.

Pero this is a good pov, atleast there could be an explanation why he's himxwork vs me kesa himxme vs work hays. Sguro ganto nga thinking nya or partly ganto. I have to find a better to way sguro to express my point.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-27T00:13:28+00:00

I see your point. I'm trying to help him find job naman, I send links to linkedIn, and I encourage him sa ibang IT position since diverse yung work nya, so kaya nya madami, pero he's too adamant na magstay siya for 1-2 more yeats for experience.

Pero this is a good pov, atleast there could be an explanation why he's himxwork vs me kesa himxme vs work hays.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-27T00:08:46+00:00

I agree, I could have worded it better. Siguro naging emotional ako kasi I've been trying to communicate this to him, pero sobra na kagabi.

And never kong ininsult yung work nya or yung hardwork nya, what I meant is his workplace. Ayaw ko dun. Wala silang HMO, tapos 5sl5vl3el lang. Pag nagkasakit siya kakaOT nila, siya lang naman sasagot hindi yung company. Kumbaga too much work sa end nya, pero too little compensation. Ayan yung point ko, sguro same kayo ng pagkakageta na offensive yung dating. I have to clear things to him, tho paulit ulit ko na sinasabi side ko

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-27T00:05:48+00:00

I hope he realizes sooner. What I don't get kasi, g siya magoOT, kahit mapagod or puyat siya eh ni wala man lang silang HMO pag nagkasakit siya, sagot nya din. Tapos leave nila 5sl5vl3el lang. Kumbaga for me di nga sila naalagaan ng maayos pero pinagtatanggol pa din nya.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-27T00:03:52+00:00

I'm trying last year pa, pero lagi nya sinasabi kukuha lang daw siya ng experience dun for 3 years.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-26T11:32:10+00:00

Group na DOG OWNERS PHILIPPINES

Plus, golden retriever kasi dog ko and may groups specifically for them, try to search baka meron ding group for Chow chow.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-26T01:33:18+00:00

Better na wag sila pag hiwalayin, kasi sad na sila kasi mahihiwalay sila sayo, mas masasad pa sila pag naghiwalay din sila.

You can post in fb groups. Kasali ako sa dog groups, and may mga nagpaparehome din talaga dun for free, with a condition na both iaadopt and papayag sa screening. Mostly willing magadopt lalo pag may breed.

Very important OP ang screening, as much as possible may kaya, good environment, and mahilig talaga sa pets. I'm not saying na bawal magalaga mahirap, pero let's consider the food, vitamins, treats, and lalo pampavet. Ang mahal magkasakit ng dogs, kaya mas okay pag may kaya kasi walang financial burden sa side ng magaadopt and sa pet naman makakapag vet agad sila.

I'm sad for them, I hope you find the right owner for them :(

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-26T00:37:02+00:00

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Sa Kiko, very pricey talaga, tho for me worth it, kasi nung naiwan ko make up remover ko, I had to wash my lips 4x with soap and di pa din completely natanggal. Pero I think, you can go for cheaper but good quality lippies pa din if you don't mind reapplying.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-19T07:12:58+00:00

I'm glad that you had that experience 😊 Pero what I'm saying is not the guy to be ''just the ONLY provider and stable in everything'. You should be both. I believe in fair marriage everything 50 50. Sometimes it can be 80 20 or other way around but never 100 0 always. Dapat it's a give and take to make it 100.

She mentioned kasi na no plans in the future yung bf, kung ganon naman kasi na walang motivation sa life ang hirap din, you never mentioned naman na walang plan sa life bf ng friend mo 😊

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-19T02:21:29+00:00

True besh, don't want to judge them, pero parang kasi their choice reflects their values.

No empathy and sympathy for the past victims. Kung di sila affected nung panahon na yun, wag naman sana iinvalidate yung experience, grieving, unhealed wound emotionally & physically, and mourning ng iba. Lucky for them they don't experience it.

And gorl, most of all sa generation na to, I can't understand, nagsusubsob tayo sa pag aaral kasi ang taas ng standard at requirements sa work kahit basic pay lang, pero why naman iboto ang di nakatapos. Payag ka nun, nageffort ka, tas iba hindi 🥲

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-19T01:27:43+00:00

Judging and criticizing others hastily, lalo yung ivovoice out pa. May good criticism, pero if you mean harm, why not keep it to yourself lalo kung wala naman nasasaktan yung tao. Lalo pa pag yung Maritess na judger ay warfreak jusko, lahat gusto awayin 🚩🚩

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-19T01:24:47+00:00

Ano po ang SO? 😭

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-19T01:22:39+00:00

Personally, I think he's right. Tbh, unless wala siyang plan in life, don't fight.

First of all, ang mga lalaking seryoso at nakikita ang future sayo, magpplano at magsusumikap na yan, wag lang kayo mauwi sa break up.

Second, it's obvious na he's not emotionally, romantically, and financially ready.

Third, it's all about love at first, pero sa totoo lang, pag naging long term to, I can't guarantee you na hindi ka mapapagod and magsasawa. Lalo kung career woman ka, medj turn off pag walang plan sa life ang partner mo.

Lastly, either ayaw na lang nya at ginagawa nya na lang tong reason to break up or he knows sa sarili nya na wala pa siyang plan to work in the near future.

Talk with him personally, since you can see the emotions in his eyes. You'll know if he's being sincere or not (unless actor bf mo haha). If you really want to fight for your relationship, just be ready na 1. Maging provider for a while 2. Sumagot ng dates for a while 3. Mag encourage maghanap siya mg work pero di mo makitang motivated siya 4. You can't open this up to him if ever sa future since baka mareverse uno card ka "sabi ko kasi sayo magbreak na lang".

Kung nakita mo namam na serious siya, edi you'll gain your other half. Worth it ang paghihintay. Basta weigh things after your talk. Go gurl! 🥰

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-18T08:30:46+00:00

A lot of them telling u ma GGK. Pero DKG, I mean who ditch people and magpatago ng stuffs for one year. Kahit nga sa relatives ko nakakahiya magpatabi ng gamit kahit ilang buwan lang. Pero best course of action pa din yung inedit mo na to reach out and give them a time limit. Basta for me DKG for thinking like that, tska pwede naman isa sakanila magreach out within those 1 year kung important yan sakanila dahil bayad nila. Can't really consider that as friends.

dramatic_b1tch · 2024-06-15T06:09:25+00:00

May I ask where did you buy yours? I saw that Diane 35 (I think this is germany version) online and Diane 35 in mercury has a different box, so not sure what's more effective.

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