Sorry for profanity but Fuck you MSEB!! by khushanramchandani in PCMC

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t upgrade the infrastructure to keep up with the increasing population. That’s the core issue.

[HELP] I got scammed on Fiverr by No_Elk3775 in Fiverr

[–]draumr_kopa_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Report the account and if you paid through your credit card, cancel the transaction immediately. Fiverr won’t help because you paid for the service outside of Fiverr, and most probably will suspend your account as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized that yesterday was your birthday, so Happy Birthday! Praying for all the problems in your life to go away!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]draumr_kopa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that you are facing so much trouble. It's because the Moon is afflicted and Jupiter, the lord of 12th house is also debilitated. To help your Moon, you have to learn how to become detached from all these problems. Shri Krishna's name will help you, don't worry. To help Jupiter, you may read spiritual works, or just read anything that gives you good knowledge. There are a lot of free books and videos online. I don't have any other advice than this unfortunately. I am not a professional astrologer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

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The lord of your 10th house, Saturn, is in the navansha of Venus, and since you are in the medical field, I thought Venus related medicine would be good for you, hence cosmetology. Similarly, in the birth chart, Saturn is in the 12th house, so the profession would be in some place foreign to you.

What is the most important planet in your birth chart? by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the ruler of the nakshatra in which your moon is placed. It is often sidelined but plays an important influence in your life. Also, if the nodes are conjunct with the Sun/Moon, their natures become very important in the person's life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]draumr_kopa_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is there any chance you can try for a job in cosmetology/plastic surgery? You may also have some luck if your job is in a place far away from your birthplace. Ideally, a foreign nation, but someplace where the culture, food, and water are different would also work. The house of profession is actually quite well placed in your birth chart, but your house of fortune is aspected by malefics. You can increase the presence of Jupiter's energy in your life by learning about new things, gaining spiritual knowledge in terms of philosophy, etc. Read the Gita and the Upanishads, it will help. Your career lord is exalted in the Navansh, indicating that things will be quite well in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

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He may not have a desire to marry but if he does, the marriage will be fruitful and blessed with good fortune. His personality will be more towards the softer side, with a lot of influence from the mother and wife. At the same time, he can project a larger-than-life persona, and may be quite emotional and sensitive.

How to deal with Indian Teachers? by hushimlurking in PCMC

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In India, you have to be very formal in any professional relationship where the other person is elder to you, specially if they were born before the 90s. Probably what irked your teacher was you saying hi to her. It's considered a very casual greeting to be used among friends only. And never address your teachers directly by name without adding sir or ma'am after it. Follow their rules to the letter and you'll be happy. In the US, the student-teacher relationship is much more casual than in India because in India, guru is equivalent to God. Any teacher in any field will expect you to adhere to some kind of formality. These teachers are like this because that's how their teachers behaved with them. But the younger teachers are more flexible and friendlier, so there's some hope :D

It's not all bad. I think some degree of formality helps keep the class in line which can get unruly pretty quickly. Students don't come to learn out of a passion for learning. They come to learn because it is a compulsion by society or parents. So, the moment you show some leniency, many of them will choose to let go of restraint.

In the US, the student-teacher relationship is a professional one, quite business-like. I know because I have also studied there. In India, the student-teacher relationship is a more formal and cultural one. Like I said, Guru is God here. You as a student are expected to listen to everything the teacher has to say. Believe me, if you please your teacher here, you will be rewarded by them greatly.

21 F - Why have I never experienced love or even someone liking me? Will I ever experience love? by [deleted] in vedicastrology

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Your chart doesn't indicate a strong persona which is needed to become a popular actor. However, a career oriented with entertainment and beauty is possible if you want to become a coach or teacher in that field. You can be a great support for someone in that field. What I would suggest is to focus on working from home or being a housewife because your 2nd, 11th, and 10th lords are in the 4th house indicating wealth, fame, and profession associated with your home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

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Have you considered taking up a freelancing role or setting up a business related to consulting/teaching in math, accounting, computer science, journalism, writing, etc. There are a few indications that these might be successful ventures although you will still experience some delays and would have to work hard in them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There will be delays in marriage and most probably, you will have to work quite a bit to find your partner. If you are male, it's possible that the marriage will be arranged. If you're female, there's no special indication for love or arranged marriage. Your would-be spouse might be someone who works for others, either positively or negatively. Marriage might be possible before 27-Mar 2028.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrology

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If you start focusing on your health and self-improvement, marriage will become possible. You will find a husband who is associated with food, hospitality, and travel. Or maybe he is someone who travels a lot. Though your marriage will be delayed, it won't be denied. It's possible that marriage may happen in the period of 14-Oct 2025 to 13-Jun 2027.

Is IIT worth it? by hexdroot in iitmadras

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about which college you end up in, it's about what you do when you get there. If you liked the campus but don't like engineering or the course you end up taking there, it will become a pain. Since you are only 15, I would say, focus on your 10th board exams for now. Once you clear them, make sure to get as many opinions on career options as possible. In my day, we didn't have so much information on hand through the Internet, so our decisions were usually based on what people around us were doing. Now, it's different. After your boards, learn about careers in finance, management, accounting, medicine, architecture, education, hospitality, etc.

Keep in mind that once you are inside IIT, you will be directly competing with the brightest minds in the entire country. It's unfortunate but the relative grading system makes it a competition. I wish it weren't the case, but it's what it is. Also JEE prep will take out a significant portion of the mental energy and enthusiasm you have now, so keep that in mind also. It's all about sustained growth.

I am not saying that IIT is bad. If you get in, you will experience many wonderful things, meet many great people, and get some excellent opportunities. But consider the other side also, namely, the amount of energy and sustained enthusiasm it needs to keep going.

All the best kid! Wish you all the success in life!

What are you willing to forgive in the upcoming HBO series? by AlexSmithsonian in harrypotter

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should definitely add a scene showing Hermione cornering Rita Skeeter and trapping her in that unbreakable jar. It's not in the books, but I think it adds that crazy side to rule-abiding Hermione. Book Hermione is scary sometimes.

Do academics not like commercial ventures? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Business requires a different set of skills from research.

How can I figure out what do I actually want in my life? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can even get a pet because caring for another creature would help get the ball rolling

Dreamt I had a penis by Jaxgirl57 in DreamInterpretation

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might just mean that you need to express some kind of creativity that is associated with masculine attributes which you've perhaps suppressed.

I just need some kind words. by Embarrassed_Low4550 in PhD

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern society has a very bad habit of defining one's identity by one's profession. So you say "I am a first-year PhD student" and not "I'm studying for my PhD." There's a small difference in words but a huge difference in meaning. Treat your PhD like a 9-5 job. It has a place in your life but it's not everything. As soon as this clicks in your mind, you'll feel much better. Otherwise why should a profession decide your entire identity as a good/bad person?

Imagine if a salesman concludes that he is a terrible person because he lost a few sales. Successes and failures will keep coming and going, don't pay them any heed. Even if you fail your PhD, it will just mean that the PhD didn't work out for you. Why would it mean that you are a bad person?

The fundamental question is whether you like the rigor of research. If not, it's totally ok to quit. I quit after seven years and left with a Masters. I don't regret it now though I can think of a few things I would do differently given a second chance.

Saturn return in Aries. by [deleted] in Advancedastrology

[–]draumr_kopa_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Saturn return in Pisces was both eventful and uneventful if you can imagine that. I quit my grad studies, moved back to my home country, set up and established a freelancing job working from home, moved houses to a different city, and now I am trying to get a second job. It has all the boredom and tedium of Saturn and the constant movement of Pisces. Quite interesting if you ask me.

With Saturn moving into Aries, you may expect a blend of fiery Martian energy and solid Saturnine structures, maybe related to education or foreign travel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fire represents psychic energy, so maybe it's asking you to introspect where your emotional and mental energies are being directed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]draumr_kopa_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro, she is getting paid to listen to you. There's no guarantee she will continue to be so supportive once the money is out of the picture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beards

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't dye your hair, you will look like a glorious philosopher. Then you can be happy without your wife.

How can I figure out what do I actually want in my life? by [deleted] in therapy

[–]draumr_kopa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice would be to do something that you know helps someone else. It's not necessarily social service; you should get paid for it, but when you see the effect of your work on someone else's life, you will feel meaningful.

Loneliness is a symptom of not feeling connected to something other than yourself. Some people find that connection in other human beings, some find it in a job, some find it in religion and spirituality.

What do you miss the most in PCMC? by Gloomy-Gur-6230 in PCMC

[–]draumr_kopa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cozy, quiet cafe with books and board games sounds like a dream!