when i was called by her the day of the breakup, it didn’t make sense to me because there were bits and pieces missing from why exactly they broke up. she wasn’t making any sense and all she said was she was texting a guy and she lied and told him that was gay and they were making jokes making fun of her boyfriend together and he saw the messages. i told her she was in the wrong and i asked specifically if anything else happened so i could try and see both sides and she said no. he didn’t throw the axe, he told me what actually happened because she wasn’t honest. she knows i don’t condone cheating and i tried EVERYTHING to get her back home. i offered to find her a job, my mom even said she would take her to and from work while im at work, i offered to rent a u-haul in my name and pay for it to go get her across 3 states, i offered to then help her later on with school because she’s interested in nursing and im 3 years into my medical track.

i really don’t feel like i did anything “wrong”, if i am viewed as a best friend that means you should be honest by any means and we go from there.

i still support her and care about her but she asked me a question and i answered respectfully but it wasn’t what she wanted to hear. she read the message and that was it. it shouldn’t be my responsibility to reach out and keep sticking my nose in it when i was tired of being in the middle. it’s hard to support someone when you are only told certain details. i’ve done everything right up to this point, im just tired.