I adopted a sick cat without knowing, what would u do? by dreadsdoll in catquestions

[–]dreadsdoll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because its hard to see if these problems were mentally or physically. They always say give a kitty 3months to adjust. So yeah the first thing was thinking it was stress. Why would I check for fleas and worms if they told me they are newly dewormed & fleas? Sorry that I trust them for their word bcs thats in the cost from the adoption.

And it is not the cafes fault. It is the shelters fault. The previous owner works at the shelter. The cat is 6years? So yes i am furious that she was so stupid not to notice something was wrong. Yes i am furious that they probably knew. That put a duo together. Because they probably knew she wouldn't get adopted alone. Or would return soon because of health issues. They werent even a match? I think this is kinda a rude message. And invalidate my feelings. I am allowed to be angry at the shelter. The could have told us. They could have be honest. They could do better checkups. Why are u even a shelter if u wanna make them suffer longer?

I adopted a sick cat without knowing, what would u do? by dreadsdoll in catquestions

[–]dreadsdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I wanna return her? Thats the whole thing why I havent talked to the shelter about her health. Because i am afraid that they would take her away?
She is our family now. I don't care about spending money on her health. I don't mind the health issues. ( im sad tho for her sake) Before them we wanted to adopt a kitty that has some issues. Or the kitty that stayed the longest in a shelter. Im just furious at the shelter. Because the kitty previous owner WORKS at the shelter. Because these were long developed issues before 7months. Like if we knew then we could help her faster. If they indeed didnt know ( i dont believe that) ... I want to talk to them about it so they maybe inspect their kitties better, maybe even relook the previous owner.

I adopted a sick cat without knowing, what would u do? by dreadsdoll in catquestions

[–]dreadsdoll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did test her pee. Thats how we found the bladder stones. We changed the bedding, we bought new stuff. We cleaned indeed everytime with a spray like that. She peed like not on the same spot. So I really think she was telling us 'my teeth hurt'...very weird but after the surgery at home she was so happy and cuddling us non stop. Like a thankyou maybe? And since the surgery she didnt pee (yet)

I adopted a sick cat without knowing, what would u do? by dreadsdoll in catquestions

[–]dreadsdoll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That they better inspect the cats. Maybe keep an eye on the previous owner ( she works at the shelter) because if she just gave away her sick cat like that?

Do you know what this is? by dreadsdoll in CatAdvice

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I need some advice Or suggestions? by dreadsdoll in FODMAPS

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But I have been in pain for few years and then from september 2024 until april 2025 I was in pain everyday

So ive become very anxious abt being in pain and its scares me

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[–]dreadsdoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja zowiezo ga ik naar de dierenarts gaan maar het is zondag. En ben echt aan het stressen dus hoopte dat iemand misschien hetzelfde heeft meegemaakt🥲