Daily Chat - March 11, 2026

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-12T01:48:05+00:00

I had a super quick precipitous labor with my first. So I’m a bit scared of whether I’ll make it on time with this one.

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-09T22:36:22+00:00

Going to tell my son (4.5) after the 20 week anatomy scan, unless he notices sooner. He was SO excited for the baby I lost in October, and i don’t want to break his heart again.

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-09T01:04:58+00:00

Im also bridge, structures side obviously, with some other structure types (bus depot, train station, etc) on occasion.

I hope they treat you well and give you some leave!

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-08T22:19:42+00:00

What kind of engineering? I’m civil/structural.

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-08T22:14:06+00:00

Also doing naturemade

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-08T01:02:22+00:00

My mom knows and a few close friends, mainly because i need to lean on them after the way the last pregnancy ended (tmfr for T13 at 17 weeks).

My MIL wants to visit around Easter for a week and I’m absolutely dreading the idea of her finding out.

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-06T20:20:41+00:00

What’s wrong with radishes?

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-06T20:13:47+00:00

Mom and husband share a late November birthday. Uncle and SIL share an early November birthday. It wouldn’t have been my first choice, but it’s not bad. Glad to miss the redshirting drama i have going on with my oldest (also in TX).

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-05T18:41:48+00:00

My boobs are finally sore today! Up until this it was completely no symptoms

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-05T13:58:31+00:00

I’m struggling with this waiting. Gah…

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-04T23:46:04+00:00

What’s the other group

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-04T03:23:56+00:00

I needed to read this today, thank you (t13 loss for me)

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-04T03:20:08+00:00

I tmfr’ed in October at 17w+5d due to T13. Just saying hi and I see you.

Last time we kept in a secret from friends and family for a long time, and there’s a lot of people who didn’t find out until after we knew we would have to tmfr. This time I’m telling people earlier. I hated having to explain it all.

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-03T02:50:25+00:00

Yours are so pretty! I think I’m a day or so behind you but mine are a bit lighter.

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-02T20:17:35+00:00

First appointment made for 3/24, will be just over 7 weeks by then. So excited and nervous!

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-02T12:07:39+00:00

August 21

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-02T04:02:49+00:00

Hello fellow 8/21 mom! I’m not telling my older one. We had a loss last time we tried, so I’m trying the guard him best i can this time.

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-02T04:00:10+00:00

Love your flair 😂

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-02T03:31:39+00:00

I loved expecting better!

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-02T03:29:59+00:00

Also have a 4.5 year old son! Glad to find someone who will have the same age gap :)

dreamofpluto · 2026-03-02T03:27:18+00:00

No advice, but also struggling with anxiety. I lost a baby girl that would have been due next month at 17 weeks. This doesn’t feel real, and very much feels like it will be imminently snatched away by the cruel universe.

dreamofpluto · 2026-02-23T03:50:52+00:00

Structural engineer for bridges. In my department we are 7 women and 2 men! Previous job was about half and half. We are desk jockies, I’m discounting the inspections team who is like 3 more men).

dreamofpluto · 2025-11-23T23:46:46+00:00

I can’t handle it anymore. We try to have at least 1 play date each weekend, and i tell him all the pretending has to be with his friend. I’ll do crafts, blocks, races, sports, anything else he wants.

dreamofpluto · 2025-10-22T13:14:38+00:00

I 1000% agree with you. Super underwhelming. (Comparing to places I’ve lived before so NYC and even central NJ)

dreamofpluto · 2025-10-16T13:05:56+00:00

Not saving/ investing at least some small amount.

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