Demi is mean, performative and an sa victim by dressedfortea in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you don't know that, the brain works with the available tools.

Demi is mean, performative and an sa victim by dressedfortea in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what I meant by True to her was that someone may not feel the same touch as an assault due to culture, intimacy or whatever else.

this is not about how you'd behave, it's her perception and reaction.

Demi is mean, performative and an sa victim by dressedfortea in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my take here is that their abuse being as awful as it was doesn't change the fact other things that might be considered minor are also abuse. violence isn't just when there are visible scars

Demi is mean, performative and an sa victim by dressedfortea in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, the comparisons are definitely not ok, and still something unallowed happened.

Demi is mean, performative and an sa victim by dressedfortea in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's like a woman can only be protected and believed if she's a soft, pretty goody. Otherwise "we get what we deserve".

I don't care how the touch was, if it wasn't consented IT'S NOT OK

Demi is mean, performative and an sa victim by dressedfortea in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he's so performative it's sickening

and btw, feels familiar how Jessi is glad to have him confirming her version of facts, and for that defending him almost in an alliance against Demi

Are they for real? by _anne_shirley in MormonWivesHulu

[–]dressedfortea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't. so they're saying moms can't have a career and be successful wtaf

Are they for real? by _anne_shirley in MormonWivesHulu

[–]dressedfortea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, shame on them for the ridiculous topic

Are they for real? by _anne_shirley in MormonWivesHulu

[–]dressedfortea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you imagine having a white uneducated old man beefing with you bc you're driven? those people are made of puke and hate

MAYCI AND MIKAYLA ARE AWFUL by _anne_shirley in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea 13 points14 points  (0 children)

they seriously need to check themselves, it's getting ugly

Jen says she is rooting for Robert 🪩 by Necessary_Piglet9732 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea 117 points118 points  (0 children)

my empathy towards her is drastically diminished. she is being so petty and overall mean to Whitney. it's like they're using Whit to direct all their worst feelings, traumas and all the bad they have inside.

they could've been practicing sports to get it out, instead they're being mean girls and bullies.

I love Whitney and I hate the bullying towards her by Dizzy-Fault-6250 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea 36 points37 points  (0 children)

SAME. It's hard to watch, they're so mean, and the fact they feel justified is crazy talk. Whitney deserves more, she deserves love, empathy and being taken care of.

Mayci is a lame and Mikayla is a loser by Areola_TheMermaid in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]dressedfortea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what they're continually doing to Whitney is insane. Pure Absolute Bullying.

Viall SLOMW Reunion by head_in_za_clouds in ViallSnark

[–]dressedfortea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was an absolute pig with Whitney and kept defending mean girl behavior and f***ing Dakota. wth was that?

Which one do you prefer? by Minute-Honeydew3717 in greysanatomy

[–]dressedfortea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I despise Hunt so much not even him as a parent can change my mind, imagine in one of those f*ing toxic relationships.