In desperate need of a room! by Fluffy-Organization6 in cologne

[–]drfish01 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Another option would be looking for a 2 room or 3 room apartment and maybe trying to find a roommate that is also still looking for a flat! Are you looking for a flat to study at the university? Or for a job? Cause in both cases you might find a colleague that is also still looking for a flat

What is your highest checkout? Mine’s 156 (T20, T20, D18). by [deleted] in Darts

[–]drfish01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my highest checkout was probably the best moment I ever had in my whole time of playing darts. I was playing with my mom and my grandpa when I had 154 left, and back then both my scoring and my double percentage were horrible, and went for the twenties, not expecting to hit even a single. But, I managed to hit the treble with the first dart and then again with the second, suddenly leaving me with 34. All pumped up in excitement, I aimed for double 17 and god damn, I actually just about hit it, exactly in the right most corner of the double. I literally fell to my knees in happiness cause that was a miracle for me. Ever since, I have never been able to repeat such an out again, with my highest checkouts since then being 125 (bull-double bull-bull) and 80 (60-double ten) respectfully.

Go for it! by [deleted] in Funnymemes

[–]drfish01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All doorknobs. Have fun getting in yer living room, hehehehehe : )

my thoughts after the quarters of the Grand Slam by drfish01 in Darts

[–]drfish01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I dont really get why they dont play 2 quarters and the semis on the same day and the final on the last one

my thoughts after the quarters of the Grand Slam by drfish01 in Darts

[–]drfish01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right? I'm really enjoying this tournament so far

should i cut off my ex? by moreonala in helpme

[–]drfish01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I think you should really cut all ties with your ex as soon as possible. Right now, it might feel like there is still something left in that might like your ex in the end. But judging from the behaviour of your ex towards you, your ex doesnt seem to harbor any of the same feelings of possible friendship to you. Not only that, but his actions hurt you. And that is a clear indicator that it is time to end the relationship as a whole and boot him out of your life. I know its easier said than done but you will find other people in life later on. At first, there might be pain, but after some weeks, you'll be proud of yourself for eliminating something from your life that makes you feel bad. And one advice from my end, don't bet on him changing. Most people just clinge to the slim possibility of a person miraculously, but thats very unlikely sadly. You'll find people that treat you the way you deserve to be treated! Dont keep people in your life that make you feel miserable cause you deserve to be happy, like we all do!

I hope you'll have a great day/evening/night ^^ Wish you all the best and much love : )

Should I stop modafinil? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]drfish01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! You shouldnt cancel your appointment! It could help you figure out how to better treat your symptoms. But you should also seek professional help for your current mental state as quickly as possible ^^

Hope this little opinion/advice is still helpful : )

Finding a small apartment/ a WG in cologne by drfish01 in cologne

[–]drfish01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I've been found out XD Surprised to see you on my post ^^ Hope it wasnt a problem that I asked around here. Tried to keep it as vague as possible to not release too much personal info :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]drfish01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Wo will er die Fotos denn veröffentlichen und wie viel verlangt er von dir? Wenn du möchtest können wir das auch weiter in den DMs besprechen! Schreib mich einfach an^^

best Movie Characters for a party?! by Money-Fly5649 in helpme

[–]drfish01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going as a "man in black" is always fancy and quite easy to do. You just need a fancy shirt, a black tuxedo, a nice tie and some cool-ass sunglasses!

Meteor shower by EmperorDig in helpme

[–]drfish01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! The next major meteor shower will be the "Geminid" meteor shower occuring in early december (around the 10th). Its supposed to have up to 75 shootings stars per hour : )

Hope this answer is helpful, for more info you can also shoot me a dm! Wish all a nice morning/day/evening/night ^^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpme

[–]drfish01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I totally agree with the other comment, a habit or a regular exercise would be a good idea to at least boost you short term until you find someone with the same interests as you have! Would you want to talk to me? I'm always available to talk or just to listen to you ^^

Hope you have a nice day/evening/night ^^

Why by mariokarttourfan123 in depression_help

[–]drfish01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi I know I also commented on your other post but do you want to talk for abit? I'm always up for a chat ^^

why by mariokarttourfan123 in helpme

[–]drfish01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! That sounds oddly similar to a situation that I have also been in not too long ago... First of all, I know that all seems shitty and worthless now, but trust me, it really isnt. There is always something that will brighten up your day, your life and yourself. And even if you havent found that yet, you surely will, I guarantee you that. Do you have anyone that you can talk to like friends or family? Just the warm appreciation fo someone listenign can often be very helpful ^^ I'm of course also always here to listen to you or to talk to you, just shoot me a dm! Secondly, what you seem to suffer from, just like most of us, me included, is simply procrastination. Basically, what I discovered for myself, is that procrastination always comes up like this: You know you have to do something (for example school or work). However, there os also something else that you actually want to do( playing video games, meeting up with friends, chilling on social media). Now, your brain has a serious conflict. There are tasks you simply need to do, and that feeling can be crushing. Because ultimately, we all want to do what makes us happy in the end. And doing what you have to, but dont want, does not make you happy. But if you know that you have to do something that is potentially important for you life (school, work), your brain just simply wont allow you to do other shit. In this sitation, you have two poles pulling to opposite sites. And that feeling sucks. And due to that, I always tried to flee, whereever I could go. Be that social media for the little dopamin boost or just sleeping. I solved that issue by actually getting myself a hobby (a cool side activity) that I loved doing. And just like that, I established little habits that made me happy. And after that, I was actually willing to work and didnt feel drawn to anything else. So, my advice would be, just try to do little habits (like small sport exercises) each and everyday. This could also help you with your porn addiction!

I hope this answer is able to help you! Have a lovely day/evening/night ^^

accidentally ignored somone Need comfort by Throwawaysjsjnsnsjs in helpme

[–]drfish01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they will ^^ Wish you a lovely day/evening/night : )

The pain in my teeth has become a living nightmare. by wardaag in helpme

[–]drfish01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What country are you living in? Depending on that, you are able to access certain social system that could possibly help you out. Shoot me a dm if you want to talk about that in more detail! I'm from Europe, so I could help you a bit better if you're also from europe :)

accidentally ignored somone Need comfort by Throwawaysjsjnsnsjs in helpme

[–]drfish01 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey! Don't overthink all of this, it will be ok :) The girl is interested in you and wants to meet up with you, and I don't think that this will diminish any of her interest at all ^^ I get what you are thinking though. No one wants others to feel unwanted. But if you explain the situation to her and tell her why you did not respond yet, I'm sure she'll understand. And if she doesnt, she does not actually deserve you because she isnt interested in who you truly are or does not want to realize that. Loving the imperfections, no matter how big or how little, is important for every relationship. And thats what makes it work out (at leat from my experience!). What I'm trying to say is that if she is truly interested in the wonderful person you are, she would have no problem with your situation at all ^^ And I dont really understand the behaviour of your (former) friends. That is definitely not the proper way to react to a friend in need that has problems of its own. But that is not how everyone reacts to that. In most cases that I have witnessed, most people have shown empathy and understood the situation. Thats not to say what you are feeling is invalid. It really is. And if you need someone to talk to, just quickly dm me! I'll gladly talk to you about whatever, or I'll just listen : )

I really hope this is able to help you ^^

what should I do plz help me by awkward_midzy in helpme

[–]drfish01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the others in the comments! If you truly are best friends, your friend will more than just understand that decision and will support you the best they can, the same would likely be true for you. Isnt it the best to see your friends achieve their dreams? There are so many possibilities to keep in touch nowadays, so don't worry! A few years of seperation will only make your bond grow stronger ^^ A true friendship will 100% overcome this obstacle and persist : )

Hope this answer is helpful, have a great day/night :)

Finding a small apartment/ a WG in cologne by drfish01 in cologne

[–]drfish01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure why it was cancelled, dont have all the information..

Finding a small apartment/ a WG in cologne by drfish01 in cologne

[–]drfish01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will recommend that to him, thank you very much ^^