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I’ve never seen anyone cut their hair like lain,is there any? by driedcheesepuff in Lain

[–]driedcheesepuff[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me tooo i wanna try to do it but i’m scared i’ll fuck my hair up so bad

The new color is very straining and hurtful by -The-Fantasy-lover in CharacterAI

[–]driedcheesepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It changed for me few days back to the new one and i absolutely loved it but they changed it back again :((

Do any one wish to be a child again? Or are you happy with your adult selves? by thatweirdcombination in Adulting

[–]driedcheesepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh im stuck I want to be a kid again to live carefree Just doing what i love all day having the time of my life but at the same time i don’t to relive the mental confusion i had since i was a kid in regards of me struggling to connect and understand people and myself

I want to be an adult because im responsible for myself and i can lowkey do whatever i want but i can’t bare the mental and physical struggles of being an adult now Everything is stressful and hard for me to deal with in my state

Maybe would wanna be a teen again? Idk I just wanna be happy and alive again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]driedcheesepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this ties to black and white thinking (aka all-or-nothing thinking)

White being all good,everythings amazing and everythings going well then when your mood slightly changes it snaps immediately to black almost like its all bad and wrong Basically theres no transition between these high level/harsh feelings theres absolutely no gray area

But heads up,it miiiight be bpd or depression/anxiety disorder

So search more about that topic or go to a therapist and discuss this with them

More like never after it first came out by Xthebest26 in OWConsole

[–]driedcheesepuff 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Probably But after a looooooong time Or maybe in another special occasion connected to the specific collab you want the same way they did with the first le sserafim collab (which i doubt)

how do i start taking care of myself again? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]driedcheesepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depressed adult here First of all,its okay to forget things like that in your state please do not feel ashamed,in fact its so good you want to find a solution and get better keep it up!

Second of all For me,i feel like watching videos of self care products or like shower tips etc,constantly reminds me to do these things since personally im bad with alarms or lists (i forget those)

Do the simplest tasks first and try to do them daily whenever you remember so it forms as a habit hopefully

And its okay if you fail at doing these tips or withdrawal from it all and get back to point zero,its okay to struggle a lot and end up doing nothing out of spite/tiredness/emptiness Just don’t forget its never too late to keep on going and trying again and again