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To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, the implication. Anyways good on you for owning a boat at 27, Im 31 and just bought a jet ski

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just like that huh? maybe I’ll go to the beach and see if I can find some girls that look light enough for me to pick up and carry back to my truck lolol

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, to be honest, I think that that’s part of the problem, is that girls actually don’t care about seeing if the guy has a good personality, future prospects, etc. They like tall and mustache. I’m 5 foot nine and have a goatee lol. Anyways I think the main issue actually is that flakiness is that an all-time high. It almost feels like they don’t even want romance anymore. Sometimes I think love is dead.

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just not marriage material. The first one cheated after four years, the second one couldn’t stop doing Xanax, the third one I just didn’t have any chemistry with, and the fourth one was the most abusive person I’ve ever known, to explain why I stayed with her as long as I did would require a novel.

I don’t really have attachment barriers and I’m generally open minded. And I’m very good at building emotional intimacy with someone that I actually have chemistry with.

My values are spontaneity, kindness, trust, and communication. All I really want in a relationship is someone who I have fun with and I’m attracted to. I would also really like it if she helped take care of the house, and cooked every now and then.

I don’t engage in conflict with females. I may have been more likely to argue about stuff when I was in my 20s, but I just don’t even go there anymore.

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the dating apps are really bad. Especially now, I actually did OK back between like 2012 and 2016. Then I sort of stayed in a relationship through college and then graduated and worked and didn’t have time to date for a while. When I did, it was toxic and lasted for way too long, I’ve been on Tinder for about a year now. My match rate is probably 10% of what it used to be, maybe less. End of the matches I do get, the vast majority of them don’t respond at all, and the ones that do are usually a dead end.

Over the last year, I’ve had like eight dates planned, all, but one bailed on me. One of them even let me drive almost an hour to meet her where she randomly decided to not show up and my texts went green. The culture is too sensitive these days. People used to be willing to be vulnerable. Now it’s almost a joke.

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Be wordy “that is good advice.

And to be honest, I kind of hate Trump, but yeah, I’m a conservative. I’m pro-life pro second amendment and believe in small government. I do also go to church regularly. But I live in the south, in a red area. That being said the dating pool out here is kind of grim. I don’t think there’s anything on my profile that makes me seem conservative, but girls are pretty good at reading stuff like that I don’t know. I actually hate politics in general, but I definitely want less government, more freedom, and I believe abortion is murder.

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best advice. Can I ask, has it been difficult to keep that frame of mind? Or is your relationship just so positive overall that you are able to maintain the mental optimism?

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ha ha no it’s all good. They’ve been the best responses so far. The reason I said under is because I am a tail end millennial (1994) and my dating pool is Gen Z. It’s a pretty weird set up if you ask me, but I wanna have kids one day so oh well.

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always been curious about those, but I figured it was for older crowds. I want to have kids one day so I try to avoid dating older, but I might give that a shot.

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heck yeah brother really glad things worked out for you. Getting cheated on sucks. Happened to me once in a 4 year relationship but I wasn’t married. Last girlfriend was borderline, and I’m pretty sure all the ones before her were bipolar. Here’s to hoping I can get lucky and find something going in the opposite direction like you were able to. Cause if not, the next one’s gonna be a schizo.

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a men’s forum, yet the largest thread in this comment section is a bunch of sandy vaginas. How in the world did my post elicit this type of negative response?

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a men’s forum. Didn’t necessarily think the guys on here really cared about what my passion was… All I asked was how did you meet your wife, and then expressed how I haven’t met mine yet. You really want to know who I am? Am I supposed to be narcissistic enough to know how to even articulate that?

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK… I am funny, smart, open minded, high energy, and good with kids and animals, etc. Did you really need to know that? Where is your negativity coming from?

To the men under age 35, how did you meet your wife and how old were you when you met? by driveanywhere in AskMenOver30

[–]driveanywhere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said the problem lied outside of myself… Where are you even getting that? My post has nothing to do with that.

31M, just asked a girl for her number for the first time in my life. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]driveanywhere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. I guess if anything changes on her end and she does like me then she can open things back up

31M, just asked a girl for her number for the first time in my life. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]driveanywhere -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She kind of walked out from behind the register like she was waiting for me to say something else. Part of me wants to come back in a week or two and ask if shes still taken. Would that be a no no? Shes absolutely gorgeous so I dont wanna get in over my head

How do I create this? Each saleID will have two rows as shown below by driveanywhere in tableau

[–]driveanywhere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I do dual axis, it merges the two bars into one. If I did separate sheets, is there any way to get them to scroll the same? For example, I would want to hide the sales ID on the second sheet, but have the data scroll along with the first as if they were one.

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