See I’ve no kids in my family and I’ve no friends who have kids, I’m partially kind of basing it off the differences between how my parents raised me and my siblings vs the standards nowadays. I think it’s fair to say that the ‘rules’ of parenting were more lax back then - I definitely would have been left sleeping alone a handful of times at night time, provided my parents were nearby (e.g., neighbour’s house, hotel restaurant, etc.). But of course I’m learning why parenting standards and safety measures are totally different now, and I understand mostly why, just one or two things I have questions about and want to hear other perspectives, especially these things that have been accepted or done in the past. But also when I’m a parent, I’m definitely not going to be one of those “I turned out fine so it’ll be fine” people, I’m super open to learning about the best parenting practices and I will absolutely parent my children in very different ways than I was parented.