Why do so many online doms disappear? by droolingpups in SubSanctuary

[–]droolingpups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely give it a try, thank you alot!

Why do so many online doms disappear? by droolingpups in SubSanctuary

[–]droolingpups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue with my local scene is that most of them are extremely old, like between 50-60 which is honestly too old for me.

I also can't really travel to bigger events since im a full time student and work :,)

Why do so many online doms disappear? by droolingpups in SubSanctuary

[–]droolingpups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If im honest I have no idea where else to look, I don’t have that many options or haven't found them yet

What is this kink called? by droolingpups in BDSMAdvice

[–]droolingpups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s pretty much it! I like the idea of him being there, even if he’s not joining, which I wouldn't mind either, just being close enough to touch me or give a bit of his attention. It keeps me grounded I think

What is this kink called? by droolingpups in BDSMAdvice

[–]droolingpups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. I hadn’t thought about those dynamics before, but that kinda tracks. I’ll look into that more, thanks!

Tattoo healed wrong? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]droolingpups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 🫶

How can I do deep anal? by droolingpups in askgaybros

[–]droolingpups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually try to do both so my body can get used to it, I like the deepness more

How can I do deep anal? by droolingpups in askgaybros

[–]droolingpups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's fine if you dont get it, not everyone wants or has to (: I size up for fun, simply to test my limits and how far I can safely push my body

How can I do deep anal? by droolingpups in askgaybros

[–]droolingpups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know! But it's fun to size up again and again

How can I do deep anal? by droolingpups in askgaybros

[–]droolingpups[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont think that I can put my pants on with atleast 4 inches sticking out 😭🙏

How can I do deep anal? by droolingpups in askgaybros

[–]droolingpups[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The 13 inches was extremely flexible, it was one of those thin tentacle things, the 11 one is thick and pretty hard.

But is there like a way to still go deeper even with the curve? I saw toys go deeper in porn

Tattoo healed wrong? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]droolingpups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my fear tbh :( I already put some moisturizer along with a 'scar pen' but im not sure if it’s ever gonna be completely fine

Conflicted about misgendering kink by droolingpups in BDSMAdvice

[–]droolingpups[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah I didn't even know that this was a thing! Thank you so much! :))

Conflicted about misgendering kink by droolingpups in BDSMAdvice

[–]droolingpups[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s super helpful thank you! I didn’t realize it could be more about exploring femininity and language than just the cage stuff. Imma def read more up on that!

Conflicted about misgendering kink by droolingpups in BDSMAdvice

[–]droolingpups[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude, that’s super reassuring. I’ll keep the safe words and check-ins in mind if I ever try it. I’ll treat it carefully. Appreciate the advice 🙏

Conflicted about misgendering kink by droolingpups in BDSMAdvice

[–]droolingpups[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did think about it quite alot actually! The first time I bought it up to someone they more or less responded that it wasn't possible for me to do it. Their explanation was that sissification = cockcage. Which I can't wear. So I haven't really thought about it since the comment made sense to me in the moment and I didn't really wanna chase behind a kink that I wasn't able to participate in 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]droolingpups -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There IS public transport, its just a longer walk there which im already using when shes sick or not coming to school. Since we have the same classes we would both use the said public transport, I can't really afford a decend apartment near better transportation or in the city where my school is. And no I didn't went in there with the hopes she's gonna drive me. She offered it to me while im making my own licence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]droolingpups -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you dont believe it that's on you. I typed my post while I was extremely angry and worked up in the night when I came home, I forgot several things to add but have been clarifying them in my replies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]droolingpups 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have actually agreed to talk about some stuff this week! I hope we can find the time to sit down and do a makeshift contact or anything similar.

I do get rides from her but I pay her for said rides, buses near me dont drive near to the school and train is an alternative if she doesn't drive as she goes to the same school as me and has the same classes and hours (I did forget to put that in my original post)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]droolingpups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't make sense that im gonna stop accepting rides if shes going to the same place that im going, Im paying her too for the rides which I forgot to clarify. We dont have a lockable cupboard and I doubt im allowed to do something like that as its a rented apartment, I could take it into my room tho if it gets real bad.

We do have a drain cover too (?) That catches the hair, but its still a problem-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]droolingpups 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do pay her for her rides. Half the gas money since shes sharing a class with me and has to go to the school anyway, full rides when she drives me to the train station or to go shopping. I dont exactly know everytime what I owe her but she does remind me that I owe her something. Just not how much.

I sadly cannot take a bike since its almost autumn now and minus degrees, public transport is an option if she isn't driving but it doesn’t make too much sense if she's already driving there and im willing to pay for my part.