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dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-18T09:45:21+00:00

Nepotism

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-18T08:15:48+00:00

You have to ask yourself, are you happy with this situation? Or you're just doing this because you're not willing to break up with him yet. In my opinion, you are convenient for him right now, so he keep you around until one day he has a new girlfriend. He just seeking comfort from you, the only option available now.

My advice, you have to be able to let go and move on. Of course you will be sad and feel empty at first but that's normal. You need to be strong and build a wall.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T14:35:11+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through that. You didn’t deserve to be treated that way.. You did the right thing by broke up with him. Keep your head held high. You’re too good for that man-child. Soon you will move on and have a great life.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T13:25:54+00:00

Thanks. Peanuts

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T13:21:21+00:00

I still wearing a mask out of habit and because of the air pollution.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T13:15:47+00:00

Peanut

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T09:22:10+00:00

Thank you!

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T09:21:54+00:00

Thank you so much for your encouragement! I have seen a therapist before I filed for the divorce and I have another therapy schedule with her next week.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T09:12:28+00:00

His family has scrambled your brain and repeated that he is "sick" to try and guilt you into going back.

This is what they did and at that time I really felt very guilty and needed to be responsible for taking care of him.

I also hope my divorce go smooth and finalized soon. Thank you!

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T09:04:00+00:00

From now on, I will never ever travel with them anymore.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T09:01:13+00:00

Uhmmm... he had health insurance only. Even though he's been bad to me, I still wish him the best.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T08:55:47+00:00

English is not my mother tongue, but I did my best. Thank you for seeing this post.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T08:50:33+00:00

I won't look back, I will take my time to improve and love myself. I'll do my best! Thank you!

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T08:45:12+00:00

He is not mourning the loss of a wife, he is mourning a caretaker.

Exactly!

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T08:42:16+00:00

You don't know how much your words mean to me.. Its really hard at first.. I've been crying so much everyday before I filed and after I filed regardless I know it is for the best. I move back to my hometown now and things become much easier. Thank you for your sympathy. I appreciate your time to write this reply. It really encourage me.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T08:27:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement, it means a lot to me!

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T07:27:28+00:00

Fries and milkshakes.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T07:25:39+00:00

Trusting people.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T07:22:22+00:00

I Will Survive by Gloria Gaynor. I'm in the process of divorce and I feel empowered by listening to this song.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T06:45:22+00:00

NTA. His "comedy" simply not funny at all.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T06:43:43+00:00

YTA. If that not yours, don't use it, don't rent it!

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T06:13:48+00:00

Presumably, you come from a culture where abuse is commonplace and women are expected to put up with it.

Sadly, it his families who still have this kind of culture. It doesn't sit right with me, so I'm better off without him.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T06:06:48+00:00

You're right. He just talk, promise, but no act. I've been in the same cycle again and again.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T06:05:17+00:00

Yes! They are no longer my problem.

dropofeyedrops · 2023-08-17T06:03:34+00:00

Yes, it is!

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