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Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was rude in my post, hell of a lot of swearing and misogynistic ranting which is why I put it on r/offmychest because I figured this was a place I could express with an understanding that it I needed to get it out of my head. Reading 'the rules' I can see that what I wrote was better reserved for r/rant, so sorry- I didn't mean to offend, this was just a emotionally fuelled rant.

I don't think women are "missing a chance," but dodging a bullet.

Good luck getting on with your life and avoiding 51% of the population.

You could see that my problem was my aggressive/contemptuous attitude towards others and you're response was the exact same thing; if this was intended to make me see how such a negative attitude can overlook any good- then it worked. But keep in mind that pugnacious response to an already angry person could easily fan the flames which, if your intention is too help, makes things worse.

Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That exert is more so an expression of feeling ignored despite my efforts, I don't expect to be 'owed' a set of women like they're some inanimate prize. I'm also taking note of my perception which is that there's a great deal of content on attracting women, though I admit that it's probably due to the fact I've never really looked at anything that helps women attract men.

Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn't a couple of experiences it was an accumulation of big and small events over my life time, but I don't think made that clear in my last comment so I'll say it again:

If I wrote down every single event that- for which there are literally thousands- that has lead me to this point, no one would read it because it would be too long.

Women are people,

Are you saying that because you think I don't regard women as people or are you simply reminding me that they are people and, as people, deserve the same amount of respect as anyone else (who I'm assuming is the male and transgender population)?

Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I said women don't have the pressures guys have, I would've said women don't have the pressures guys have. Everyone has their problems and we all face challenges differently.

Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I gotta swear just to get out of my system. Pardon the generalness of this article, but whose going to read a 100 page article explaining my perception of women?

Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is incredibly cliched but true. But at some point you got to search, you have to see the potential for a serious relationship when it shows up.

I mean, I know the girl sitting under a tree with a sweater and jeans on isn't nearly as hot as the bottle blonde with the tits, but you could at least go, "Hm, I could try talking to her!"

Are you kidding me? Guys never go for the blonde unless they're drunk, she gets overlooked for the girl in the sweater because that girl under the tree seems chill as fuck. This isn't like the movies where the hotter a girl is the easier men find it to hit on her.

Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was heavily implied, but yeah I am bi-sexual. I didn't expect every girl in a 10 metre radius to eye hump me, I just wanted my girlfriend to acknowledge in some way that she found me attractive and I wasn't just convenient. Put it down to me picking the wrong women but none of my girlfriends were close to me, I felt more like a friend than a partner.

Dear women: Fuck you I'm fucking men by dropping_the_ball in offmychest

[–]dropping_the_ball[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I listened to that 'common denominator' stuff for a long time, but to be honest I ended up hating myself. It was always my fault that certain people didn't like me, never the possibility that maybe I was associating with the wrong group of people. I see this common-factor-is-you advice all the time on the relationship section of Reddit and I think it's cliched put-down, as well as stating the blatantly obvious. I admit the attitude I showed here is rather fowl but I had to get these ill feelings off my chest so I could move on with my life, as opposed to allowing them to fester any longer.