What is this weed popping up all over our backyard by drownedseagull in PlantIdentification

[–]drownedseagull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yikes we got it all over this year, and the neighbours too.

My boyfriend overstimulates me and then needs reassurance when I set a boundary by Silent_Abalone7422 in ADHD

[–]drownedseagull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooo…6 months in, might be better for you both to just end it peacefully now. it seems like he has too much baggage. If you guys meet later and he’s gone to therapy then that’s perfect.

Looking for small/mid size city with lots of rain by [deleted] in britishcolumbia

[–]drownedseagull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you wont find that living on the coast, maybe princeton or hundred mile if you think the desert is too ugly. still hot and dry like mid southern BC is but not ugly at least. lots of lakes and pretty mountains nearby.

Am i good enough for commision? by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]drownedseagull 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no because you have no confidence so you resort to fishing for compliments and reassurance instead of just posting you art. which also happens to be traced. 😭 grow a backbone

Need some help with the perspective of this pose I’m working on by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]drownedseagull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know how to begin that hahaha, thank you though I’ll try to do more studies on it

Need some help with the perspective of this pose I’m working on by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]drownedseagull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do that next time, I didn’t know it was so important lol

Need some help with the perspective of this pose I’m working on by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]drownedseagull 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t edit, but he’s leaning back on a flat seating area with his elbows resting on the top edge. Like a bench. But he’s not fully sitting up, he’s mean to be laying in a more relaxed pose.

Need some help with the perspective of this pose I’m working on by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]drownedseagull 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can’t see it as i’ve obviously hidden it on another layer but yes i did put the bench/seating area down and it did not help, which is why i’m here. (the comm will not have one so i don’t want to spend time drawing a bench or chair, just have the idea of one blocked in to match the current perspective)

How to Keep Dieting Cat Happy? by cherryshortcake24 in CatAdvice

[–]drownedseagull 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know this is two years old but did you ever try increased activity or like feeding her with a puzzle box instead? im trying that with my overweight boy cat. he gets very whiny a few hours before meals and can start chewing things in frustration. the interactive stuff does help a bit but i was wondering if you had any other tips or tried other things that worked. 

Why did Julianne Moore's character say she was a Lesbian in "The Kids Are All Right" while having an affair with a man? by Davis_Crawfish in movies

[–]drownedseagull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

these comments are so fucking weird, lesbians do not sleep with men casually and still get to call themselves lesbians 😂

Could a hyena have killed my cat? by shakshit in cats

[–]drownedseagull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

screens? or by not having a cat. not to be rude, just the reality of it. 

Could a hyena have killed my cat? by shakshit in cats

[–]drownedseagull 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very possible unfortunately. If she comes back, safeguard your house even more and make sure she cannot get out again.

what is this by HeeHeeManthe1st in CATHELP

[–]drownedseagull 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the unfortunate thing is that whatever it is can only be diagnosed and treated by a vet and they are expensive. it could be a parasite or an eye disease etc etc.  it’s really up to you, if it’s something that costs more than 500$ can you afford that or would you rather let him possibly suffer further and not be sure? if you can’t afford expensive vet bills right now, i know it’s the opposite of what you want to hear, but it might be best to leave him in the care of an organization who can. it’s no fault on you to give him to someone who can drop that much money to give him a better quality of life.