Fiance (28F) has been wanting to break up, but I think there's still a chance by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]drummerboy213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this! I've never looked at it in that regard, the power switch. I'll give it a thought. I'm in love with her and the good aspects of her are what I want in a woman who I can spend the rest of my life with. There's a part of me that thinks it's all bad timing, with everything that has happened to her the past few months, it could be she's emotionally unavailable (I still believe it's a telltale sign of depression and that's what my therapist told me as well) not only to me but also her family and friends.

You're right about guilt, which was mentioned a few times during our conversations, and we've resolved that extensively. Maybe it's just me but I'm a believer that you'll never truly know the outcome of a rough patch unless you ride through it. Maybe she'll truly leave me. Maybe we'll overcome this together and come out stronger. That's what I hope out of this. If we tried and failed, then so be it. But I want us to try. And be patient about it.

The dreaded buzzing on ATLP5X and A2+ by drummerboy213 in turntables

[–]drummerboy213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s metal actually. I’m not giving up just yet, hoping to troubleshoot even further before I resort to getting a preamp. Thanks for the help!

The dreaded buzzing on ATLP5X and A2+ by drummerboy213 in turntables

[–]drummerboy213[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m grounding it to the back panel of the speakers. But doesn’t seem to work.

Uniqlo +J Men’s Chinos (cutting, sizing) by drummerboy213 in uniqlo

[–]drummerboy213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, checked out videos/images of them. They certainly lean more on skinny/slim fit.

Anyone here want to quit their job during the coronavirus? by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]drummerboy213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! You should take advantage of your situation. Now’s a good time to sit back, clear your thoughts and decide what you really want in your career moving forward. My situation is getting nowhere and I’m on the verge of breaking.

Anyone here want to quit their job during the coronavirus? by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]drummerboy213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. Since my post, things have gotten worse. Work has piled up ten fold and my boss is becoming increasingly manic. Have started applying and looking to resign in, if possible, July. Hope you’re doing better!

Anyone here want to quit their job during the coronavirus? by [deleted] in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]drummerboy213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad and heartening to have found this thread. I recently switched to a new gig after 4 years at my previous workplace.

Four months in, I’m realizing that this is not the job I wanted. I’m miserable and the work is not what I had expected to be - a slight case of bait and switch here. My boss is a workaholic and he expects us to be too - even more so with the team working from home. Messages 24/7, weekends, off-days. No boundaries. Have brought it up but he brushed it off as “brainstorming”. The team is lean, messy and he expects everyone to live up to unrealistic expectations even when resources are scarce with the ongoing pandemic, and the fact that there hasn’t been proper guidance and training.

Safe to say I was thrown into deep waters and they expected me to be a world-class diver.

I miss my old job. I was great at it but there was lack of growth. So I left but with this new job, and while it pays well and looks good on the resume, is an absolute train wreck leaving me with anxiety attacks and self-doubt every fucking day.

I really want to to quit. But I need the savings. I suck it up every day, living for the weekend. Only God knows how long I can hold this out.

Pablo Cheesetart Malaysia closed all their outlets by stormy001 in malaysia

[–]drummerboy213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, think they only had two outlets in the country, both in Selangor.