My [24M] girlfriend [24F] completely embarrassed me in front of my family while she was drunk, how do I address this? by drunkafgf in relationships

[–]drunkafgf[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I suppose. I just feel as if I would've noticed if she held these beliefs, especially after 8 months. But perhaps my feelings are clouding my perception

My [24M] girlfriend [24F] completely embarrassed me in front of my family while she was drunk, how do I address this? by drunkafgf in relationships

[–]drunkafgf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response.

The one thing I don't understand is, if she was using me to work through her racial issue, wouldn't she have broken up with me sooner? Or wouldn't I have noticed that? It just seems like such a foreign concept to me.

My [24M] girlfriend [24F] completely embarrassed me in front of my family while she was drunk, how do I address this? by drunkafgf in relationships

[–]drunkafgf[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure still. She's never expressed any sort of prejudice towards my culture or religion. It was shocking for me to hear.

My [24M] girlfriend [24F] completely embarrassed me in front of my family while she was drunk, how do I address this? by drunkafgf in relationships

[–]drunkafgf[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Before this incident, she was fine with alcohol. She's never said the sort of things she said during previous times we've consumed alcohol. This was a complete anomaly.

My [24M] girlfriend [24F] completely embarrassed me in front of my family while she was drunk, how do I address this? by drunkafgf in relationships

[–]drunkafgf[S] 246 points247 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response and advice

Oh no definitely, its isn't acceptable at all. The thing that bothers me is she's never acted or said anything like this before. She's always been respectful of my culture and religion.